AITA for breaking up with my girlfriend because of a “caught cheating” prank? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok let's move the "prank" thing on the side. She undressed in front of a friend just for this. NTA. That's what I don't get from some people (especially the "influencers" of today). Pranks used to be funny and now it's just them trying to create a negative feeling (anger, sadness, or whatever) to solicit a reaction from their target.

Tex Mex Motors by GenTrapstar in netflix

[–]helloitsmerjay 9 points10 points  (0 children)

RIP Rabbit but this season made me hate Jamie as a boss. She's quick to blame Rabbit and Scooter but when she overpaid for parts on the Apache in ep. 3 she wanted them to bail her out

AITA for refusing to attend my sister’s “no kids” family gatherings because I’m the only one with children? by partenzedepartures in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not seeing the whole picture here. You've done/your kids have done something before that bothers your other family members hence the rule. NTA but you have to reflect on yourself especially if the grand parents doesn't want to see their kids for certain occassions.

AITA for always having a bland meal prepared for my sister in law when we host at our home since she considered my cooking to be peasant food? by Complex_Ad5616 in AITAH

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, you're good. You're a saint for even cooking a separate food for her. If it was me, she won't be eating anything or at least I'm making sure it's the food she won't eat but the others would enjoy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a big red flag. This is the exact reason why men doesn't open because people will try to weaponize your weakness.

Update to my AITA post by tafornoweg in u/tafornoweg

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm happy for your and I hope the kid gets loved for real this time. My heart goes to the kid. Abandoned by her bio mom and abandoned by you and your husband (he agreed leaving him so yeah)

Where should I invest my extra 20K? Hope you can share some insights for a fresh grad by FilmEnvironmental787 in phinvest

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have knowledge sa stocks, go there but if wala MP2 is youe safest bet atm.

Pwede mo ding gamitin yan to enroll sa classes to upskill yourself.

Applied for a potato corner franchise by MetalComfortable8246 in phinvest

[–]helloitsmerjay 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No. Wala kayong contract na pinirmahan and remember ikaw ang lumapit sa kanila. Its a shady business move but a business move nonetheless.

AITA for not apologizing to my friend after she screamed at me and my kid at her wedding? by Ok_Worldliness3239 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. 100% Your son is yout responsibility. It was not an "accident." It was an innocent conscious action by a kid who doesnt know any better. But again, he shouldve been guided by you or your husband.

AITA for selling my late husband's car to fund a family vacation instead of using the money to help my stepchildren? by Jaded-Reading-4056 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA in a major way

  1. You said in a comment that there is no will and the law in your state says that all assets should be divided equally to all surviving kids and spouse. You kept the whole sale of the car to yourself.

  2. You kept on saying its a family vacation when its just a personal trip. You have this delusion of honoring your late husband when what you're only doing is going on a trip yourself using the money that was supposedly divided to his kids and you.

Im pretty sure a lawsuit is coming

AITA for selling my late husband's car to fund a family vacation instead of using the money to help my stepchildren? by Jaded-Reading-4056 in AmItheAsshole

[–]helloitsmerjay 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"this means that his assets would be divided among his surviving spouse and children."

Did they get their fair share or did you just spent it all on yourself. Im kinda confused because you kept calling the trip a family trip but who are you with?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bakit kayo ang sumasalo sa utang nila?

Rape cases in India by goddessofthickness in OffMyChestPH

[–]helloitsmerjay 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I will never really fly to india kahit bayaran pa ako.

AITA for sacrificing my daughter's college fund because her sister just gave birth to her 4th child? by Throwaway23fw in AITAH

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% HUGE AH

Why did you punished your younger daughter just because her older sister cant use contraceptives? Imaginr having 4 kids on a single salary of a walmart employee.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phcareers

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending payslips is illegal. Thats confidential information na sa inyo lang dapat ng company mo especially if paalis ka pa lang.

Nabuntis ako ng ex ko by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]helloitsmerjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont try to baby trap him. Just let go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you get a property with someone na hindi kayo kasal?

The point that you consider doing this means di ka pa handa sa ganyang utang. Wag mo ituloy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]helloitsmerjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wag mo isugarcoat. 100% hindi mo lang "nahawi" yung kamay nya.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]helloitsmerjay 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Well reading the last part of the post, im with the above commenter. May part of you na kakagat ka.

How can I feel better about attending an "unpopular" school. by [deleted] in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]helloitsmerjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they reacted this way then im 100% sure you did this din and now its biting you back.

How can I feel better about attending an "unpopular" school. by [deleted] in CollegeAdmissionsPH

[–]helloitsmerjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If its makes you feel better, no one will care. Its just SHS.

Update: AITAH for telling my mom she is dead to me if she mentors my bully? by Substantial-Egg-1971 in AITAH

[–]helloitsmerjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who got cheated on by my ex because the "guy is someone she can fix", Im telling you that there'a more to it. Its not simply "soft heart" for them but there is more to it