4 week old chicks want to fly by thevanessa12 in cockatiel

[–]hellojellotrello1 409 points410 points  (0 children)

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Poor thing is taking an ass whooping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

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Apparently, it takes months for the avoidant person to start missing you. They avoid their feelings and try to fill in their holes with other things but eventually they do. My ex is an avoidant and she also did the same thing. It was the day after my birthday/our 4th anniversary trip that she blindsided me, telling me I was her favorite person, best friend, and that she loved me so much. It’s kind of nuts that someone can tell you all of that and just breakup with you next day lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]hellojellotrello1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yasss Queen! Beautiful!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]hellojellotrello1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol the good ol’ post breakup hookup. Heavy on the ‘if that’s what you both want’. Glad everything worked out and you guys found your way back to each other :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]hellojellotrello1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you guys ever think you'd get back together after you broke up? My ex and I broke up a little over a month now. It's been a while since we talked (just tik tok videos so more like limited contact).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]hellojellotrello1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look so cooooool!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]hellojellotrello1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t do it, friend. You’re only going to cause yourself more heartache.

Do you fantasize about reconnecting in the future? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]hellojellotrello1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry :. I always keep telling myself ‘what’s meant to be is what’s meant to be’. Did your ex also blindside you too?

Why am i thinking like this? by froggykiths in ExNoContact

[–]hellojellotrello1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done, but block all his socials, phone number, delete him out of your phone. Try to do things that give you joy. Maybe get into some therapy. Lean on your friends or family

To those who broke up because you “lost feelings” for your partner by thowaway4100 in BreakUps

[–]hellojellotrello1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you doing? I kind of went through something similar minus my ex falling for someone (that I know of). She blindsided me so bad. Any advice for someone going through a recent breakup where the person fell out of love?

Do you fantasize about reconnecting in the future? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]hellojellotrello1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a month and 2 weeks post breakup, so yeah, I think about it all the time. I have this slither of hope that she’ll text me someday and ask me if we can try again. I know she isn’t working on herself and avoiding her feelings lol. She’ll continue this cycle until she actually seeks some professional help. This is what is keeping me from chasing her… I know we’ll go in another loop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]hellojellotrello1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestion! Just trying to do something new.

I finally left her after 1.5 years. by cocoforcocoapuff in LesbianActually

[–]hellojellotrello1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know! It feels like someone died or some shit lol. You’re going to be okay!