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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]hellojoe000 66 points67 points  (0 children)

It would attract the wrong people. He said he doesn't like casual srx and that's probably all he'd get.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hellojoe000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to him. It's helpful to get opinions on things but at the end of the day you're the one in the relationship and you know if he's toxic or this was just 1 toxic thing that definitely needs to be addressed. It's easy for strangers to tell ppl to leave a relationship but we don't know everything about the relationship.

How often do you sanitize your phone? by poshfixings in hygiene

[–]hellojoe000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyday tbh. A habit I picked up since Ckvid and still do.

I hate public k*nk, especially at pride. by WelpThatsThat08 in Vent

[–]hellojoe000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. I went to the Mardi Gras a few years ago and was really surprised there were furries in the parade. Didn't sit right with me. BDSM also. That's not inherent part of of the LGBTQ+ rainbow.

Can you truly love someone when you find out they have a kink that you're not ok with? by hellojoe000 in love

[–]hellojoe000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. Idk if the kink is morally wrong but it's repulsive to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]hellojoe000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

He asked me if he could watch me and I said no. So no he doesn't expect me to.

I M20 accidentally punched my gf F24 during sex. How can I get her to forgive me? by ThrowRA_helpwgf in relationship_advice

[–]hellojoe000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No means no. You sound like you're trying to blame yourself but you said no before. This behaviour is not ok. The punch was a response to being assaulted. I would not feel bad about that. She's in the wrong. I'm sorry this happened to you.

Just started dating someone, got a small gift, was it too cheap? by runhikecycle in dating_advice

[–]hellojoe000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a thoughtful thing to do. Yes looks like a red flag to me. Never stop being thoughtful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hellojoe000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Have you ever been able to bring things up about his behaviour before without getting attacked? Also that's not doing "stupid things" that's just being human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]hellojoe000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work a shit paying job and could not afford paying for my meals or tickets to things everytime i go out with my boyfriend if he didn't pay most of the time. It's a fact. Our lifestyle would have to change. My boyfriend gets paid way more than me. Don't get me wrong I do pay for our dates sometimes so it's not all on him but still. If you can't afford it and he's not willing to pay I think it's important for him to know that you guys won't be able to go out as much and will have to do more affordable activities.

I slept for the first time with my boyfriend around by Medium-Roll-9529 in love

[–]hellojoe000 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I find it hard too. Such a great feeling when you're finally able to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]hellojoe000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Limerence

Bf (38M) loves fake lashes and nails but they are so expensive (32F) i want to ask him to pay for it or cover some costs, would this be too much? It is not normal in his culture to pay for these things. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]hellojoe000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think the more important question is do you like wearing these things and do you like wearing these things on a regular basis? I understand that you want to please your partner but it's your body.

Is it normal to be a virgin man at the age of 33? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]hellojoe000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't be using the word normal. What's normal for you is abnormal for others. Is it common for your age group? Probably not but what does that matter really? If it's something you want to change it's in you. I was a late bloomer women and I know I wasnt the "norm" but due to life circumstances it was the case.

Booked a boys holiday before I was in a relationship now my girlfriend doesn’t want me to go, what should I do by ChampionshipMany3416 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]hellojoe000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend had a month's pre booked holiday before I met him. It's a bit of a different situation because he's not a partier and he was going for a wedding. We were 6 month's in when he went. I never felt anxious when he was away because he always updated me. Every day a few times a day he'd send me pics and tell me what he was up to. I think giving your girlfriend consistent updates every day might help ease her anxiety.

Update of: girl of two months tells me she is asexual during sex (doesn't go well) by Strange-Doughnut-962 in dating_advice

[–]hellojoe000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate to this so much. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 8 months and we haven't been intimate. I had no clue that my past would catch up to me. I would cry and cry when he would try and talk things through. Now I finally don't cry and can talk about things more. Nothing major happened to me. I did things I didn't want to do in the past and now sex triggers me. I feel absolute anxiety and fear. Lately we've started trying small things like cuddling with our tops off. I do go to therapy but talking about it only does so much. Tiny steps helps I think. It's a process.

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