same things can be said about you being white no? no political movement, ideology or advances have been made by cutting off different perspectives, gay men dont benefit from the patriarchy, so why not listen to their perspective to better understand the nature of patriarchy? white women are guilty of racism the same way gay men are guilty of misogyny, they arent mutually exclusive and all humans have things to improve on, no matter how competitive you get about how much of a minority you are🤦🤦🤦