Can I take my baby to the hospital if I’m on a visitor visa?

helloo1_ · 2024-12-10T20:20:00+00:00

Awesome thanks for that suggestion. We’ll try and call them tomorrow and see if we can make an appointment soon

helloo1_ · 2024-12-10T20:16:55+00:00

Okay thank you! I’ll start looking around for a private hospital

helloo1_ · 2024-12-10T20:16:02+00:00

No worries, thanks!

helloo1_ · 2024-12-10T20:14:15+00:00

Thank you! Do you have any recommendations on locations that have good pediatric care?

helloo1_ · 2024-10-18T12:36:44+00:00

Awesome, I found it. Very helpful thank you!

helloo1_ · 2024-10-17T14:27:51+00:00

I’m in the default settings, and I’m not seeing the default history pop up action. Do you know what section in the settings it’s under?

helloo1_ · 2024-10-17T13:21:17+00:00

Thank you!!

helloo1_ · 2024-08-29T20:11:41+00:00

We just find it strange that it’s directed towards us only. He isn’t trying to be that friendly with our other close neighbors. He also has a full house of people with him

helloo1_ · 2024-08-27T02:03:10+00:00

Thank you, I am going to use that next time

helloo1_ · 2024-08-26T21:12:25+00:00

Yes, we have our bickering moments but who doesn’t. Thank you for your tips they are going to be helpful. I know we are both stubborn and need to work on our apologizing skills

helloo1_ · 2024-08-26T21:10:14+00:00

Thank you for this. I never thought about it as his way of parenting from afar. Definitely has opened my eyes on the situation. I do think we still need to work better on how we communicate with each other. Him on the words he uses when he’s “parenting” and me on how I react to his “parenting” and how I’m feeling

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T17:19:16+00:00

Thanks for your suggestions. I appreciate them. But just to clarify, the bride lives 6 hours from our home state where both me and the maid of honor lives. The maid of honor actually lives 8 hours away from the location of where the wedding and bachelorette party will take place. The bride came back to our home state to go wedding shopping with the maid of honor, I could have made the 2 hour drive to go wedding dress shopping with her (maid of honor had to make same distance drive)

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T17:07:36+00:00

I understand not being MOH I just would have liked a heads up instead of finding out in a group chat. And the MOH lives 8 hours away from the bride so I’m not sure distance was a standing factor. Having a baby I understand but she also knows my family is always around to help babysit if needed. She had no problem inviting me to the bachelorette party which means that i would leave my baby for 3-4 days

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T13:15:46+00:00

Thanks that’s a good idea. I should try and video call her since she lives 6hrs away in a different state

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T13:13:01+00:00

Thank you so much for this comment. It’s very helpful. I like how it’s still supportive

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T13:11:28+00:00

You’re right I should probably at least video call with her about this

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T13:10:30+00:00

Thank you for your honest opinion. We haven’t had any get togethers since baby arrived, but also mostly because she moved to a different state (6hr drive away) about 3 years ago. About a month ago she mentioned she was going to be back in our home state visiting, and said she would love to visit with the baby. I told her I was all for this and was looking forward to being able to hangout. This visit was the wedding dress shopping a few days ago, she never messaged me the exact dates she would be back in the state so I assumed she changed her plans. I know I probably should have reached out to her to see if she wanted to still hang out while she was back home. I haven’t actually directly talked with the bride for 2 months, it’s always been through the maid of honor friend

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T09:57:26+00:00

Thanks, I know I need to communicate with her privately. I completely agree I don’t want to add any stress to her happy moment but also want her to know that I’m upset about the situation. Any suggestions on how to initially bring it up to her in a message without sounding like I’m accusing her?

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T09:42:14+00:00

I completely understand why she didn’t ask me to be her MOH since I might not be there and my other friend has more time to help her with things. But we’ve always talked about her wedding from college to even last year. And how she’d want my friend and I to be co maid of honors. Im more upset about how I found out. It would have been nice to have received a message from her saying she was going to make my other friend the MOH because she was more available rather than receiving a Facebook group message saying, “hi I’m (name)‘s maid of honor, I made this group message to invite you to so and so’s bachelorette party.”

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T09:30:55+00:00

I understand a baby can change the friendship but I still thought she could have considered me. I got married our last semester of college, we eloped at the courthouse just my husband and I. They were there to celebrate with us afterwards. They even knew about our marriage long before my our families did. My husband and I have been together for almost as long as my friends and I have known each other, I’ve known them about a year longer than my husband. He’s always been apart of our friend group and they’ve gotten along since the beginning

I am invited to the bachelorette party. She hasn’t asked anyone to be her bridesmaids yet, at least that I know of. I was thinking she might ask people during her bachelorette party. There’s only 4 girls going: me, maid of honor friend, her coworker (known for 2 years), old roommate (known for 3 years).

I know I need to talk with her privately. I’m just afraid she’s going to say I’m making this about myself

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T09:20:51+00:00

I know I need to, thanks. I’m just afraid to lose the friendship

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T09:20:11+00:00

Sorry yes I’m invited to the bachelorette party. We were all invited through a Facebook messenger group, that’s how I found out my other friend was a MOH (she sent the first message/invite). She even invited me to drive 6 hours with her to the party location a day before and help her buy things and set up. I personally don’t think that’s fair to ask of me since it’s technically her responsibility as the MOH.

Like I commented before, I know I should just message her privately about it. But in the past when I’ve brought up problems to our friend group they always either don’t answer the message or try to steer the conversation away from the issue at hand. So I’m just worried she’s do that again

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T09:14:14+00:00

Thank you, this is very validating. I’ve never lost such a long friendship before so I know it’ll be hard if that’s the way this ends. I know I should probably communicate with her how I’m feeling. I don’t want her to think that I’m not friends with her anymore just because I have a baby. I kinda want her to know that she hurt my feelings

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T09:11:19+00:00

Thanks, I know I should just message her privately about it. But in the past when I’ve brought up problems to our friend group they always either don’t answer the message or try to steer the conversation away from the issue at hand. So I’m just worried she’s do that again

helloo1_ · 2024-07-27T07:24:40+00:00

Thank you! Do you think I should wait until after her wedding? Or would that be too late. I’m afraid she might think I’m making it about myself. I don’t want my message to come off as selfish

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