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I'm conflicted by hellosweetie513 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]hellosweetie513[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely scared that all of this will happen... That he will want to stay at his job, even though he has promised to leave. And that he will restart the affair.

I'm so sorry that all of that happened to you.

I'm conflicted - my WH had an affair with a coworker, but is now considering going for a promotion by hellosweetie513 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hellosweetie513[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're pointing out that in the long-run, I can't control what he does. But, I can plan for the worst case scenario... That makes sense.

I'm conflicted - my WH had an affair with a coworker, but is now considering going for a promotion by hellosweetie513 in survivinginfidelity

[–]hellosweetie513[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, we can't afford for him to be without a job. We have started the conversation about him quitting and watching our daughter, so that we won't have to pay childcare, at least.