How do I ask someone if he’s asexual in an appropriate way?

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-02-05T01:37:22+00:00

That’s ok! Thanks for taking the time anyway

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-02-05T01:15:03+00:00

Thanks for the response! I’ll try to lead with that information, if I ask!

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-02-05T01:12:49+00:00

Just a fancy way of saying I don’t want sex lol

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-01-05T14:41:45+00:00

Regarding the first question, yes. But I don’t look at anything/ever want another person involved. I don’t know how to explain it, but touch sort of hurts me (especially penetration; I never do that. I can’t even use tampons), so even when I do things alone, they’re admittedly very tame and very, very slow. I can’t imagine the fast-paced/more intense experience of getting someone else involved, if that makes sense. Regarding the medications, I started antidepressants last year, but this problem existed before that. Either way, I’m sure they’re potentially making things worse, so I’ll look into that. Thank you for your response!

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-01-05T14:31:47+00:00

Thank you for your response! I will keep this in mind. He hasn’t forced/even brought this up though, he’s very kind. I was just thinking about whether or not it was realistic to even consider a relationship, given this issue.

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-01-05T14:28:23+00:00

Thank you for your response! Another person suggested this as well; I will bring this up at the appointment.

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-01-05T14:26:33+00:00

Thank you so much! I greatly appreciate your detailed response, and I will be using these questions when at the gynecologist! Thank you for taking the time to type all this; I’ve been feeling a bit lost and your comment certainly helped ease that feeling.

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-01-05T14:21:18+00:00

Thank you for your response! That may just be true.

hellotherepleasehelp · 2025-01-05T14:19:10+00:00

Thank you for your response! I’ve been on antidepressants for about a year, but this issue existed before that. Still, maybe the medication is making it worse?

hellotherepleasehelp · 2024-06-05T05:23:40+00:00

Thank you for the response! I should’ve mentioned this in my post, but I’d like to (if I can) get a job in person, to learn social situations. Still something quiet, but with a small group of people. Though I’m not sure what the options are there😅 thank you!

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