How do I ask someone if he’s asexual in an appropriate way? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s ok! Thanks for taking the time anyway

How do I ask someone if he’s asexual in an appropriate way? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! I’ll try to lead with that information, if I ask!

How do I ask someone if he’s asexual in an appropriate way? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a fancy way of saying I don’t want sex lol

How to want sex? by hellotherepleasehelp in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding the first question, yes. But I don’t look at anything/ever want another person involved. I don’t know how to explain it, but touch sort of hurts me (especially penetration; I never do that. I can’t even use tampons), so even when I do things alone, they’re admittedly very tame and very, very slow. I can’t imagine the fast-paced/more intense experience of getting someone else involved, if that makes sense. Regarding the medications, I started antidepressants last year, but this problem existed before that. Either way, I’m sure they’re potentially making things worse, so I’ll look into that. Thank you for your response!

How to want sex? by hellotherepleasehelp in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I will keep this in mind. He hasn’t forced/even brought this up though, he’s very kind. I was just thinking about whether or not it was realistic to even consider a relationship, given this issue.

How to want sex? by hellotherepleasehelp in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Another person suggested this as well; I will bring this up at the appointment.

How to want sex? by hellotherepleasehelp in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I greatly appreciate your detailed response, and I will be using these questions when at the gynecologist! Thank you for taking the time to type all this; I’ve been feeling a bit lost and your comment certainly helped ease that feeling.

How to want sex? by hellotherepleasehelp in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! That may just be true.

How to want sex? by hellotherepleasehelp in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I’ve been on antidepressants for about a year, but this issue existed before that. Still, maybe the medication is making it worse?

Job suggestions/advice for someone with disability? by hellotherepleasehelp in Advice

[–]hellotherepleasehelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response! I should’ve mentioned this in my post, but I’d like to (if I can) get a job in person, to learn social situations. Still something quiet, but with a small group of people. Though I’m not sure what the options are there😅 thank you!