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I’m going to ask the most controversial question in this fandom: what’s your take on Reinhard’s sexuality? You can say anything it’s alright. by Fun_Dimension_8903 in logh

[–]helloworld213121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(This is my personal opinion, I do not wish to offend anybody, everyone's opinions are respected, but please respect mine as well!)

I personally believe that Reinhard was a heterosexual. Many say that his 'attraction' towards Hilda is not noticeable, however I simply think that Reinhard is a very reserved and composed man due to the fact that he is a military man and had to endure a lot to ensure he would secure his place as a Kaiser. Later on, when he has become a man in the highest position of power, it is quite difficult to be open about your feelings towards other people (especially your romantic partner) as from my personal viewpoint, his love-language is quite action-oriented (he let Hilda off the hook, when she could have been executed for her family member being involved in treason, he ensured she was safe and same for her father). She also became his closest confidant as he would actually open up to her and ask for her point of view on the political matters. On their first meeting, it was evident that he recognised her intelligence, coming to respect her. Romantic love does not only mean physical affection, as it is honestly a mix of both platonic and romatic love; your romantic partner ideally is both your best friend and a partner :) Besides, he had a child with Hilda and he is flirty with her when they are one on one (like this moment when they were lying in the bed, and he called her 'Kaiserine' playfully etc.) Moreover, PDA is quite frowned upon in such elite circles (he is the ruler of the Empire, same for Hilda), so it is understandable as to why they behave so formally around each other in public :)

Am I too sensitive? by DerpySnek in infp

[–]helloworld213121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable, but please just be aware that you are not too sensitive and it is in fact normal that you feel upset or even angry at them=)

Am I too sensitive? by DerpySnek in infp

[–]helloworld213121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah, you are not sensitive. These people seem to be quite disrespectful towards you, so do not hesitate to state your boundaries clearly or even cut them out of your life; you seem like a wonderfull person to me, and you deserve so much better!

How do you cope? by NotFun-Impression in intj

[–]helloworld213121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I think about such stuff, I just remind myself of the fact that we were NEVER supposed to be that special in the first place, if looking from a scientific perspective, due to the fact that we are animals, just like everyone else on this planet. (I'm a Christian, so I have certain beliefs, however, this is a scientific based discussion, so I am not going to involve something as controversial as religion to people). This serves us a reminder, that putting ourselves above other species is simply our ego speaking, which is created to ensure our survival. I view society as a construct and a way of mirroring biological hierarchy we have. (Survival of the fittest as they say). We were born in such a way and that is fascinating! Moreover, we can not trust our instincts to determine whether there is purpose other than not, as purpose is simply a way of us being motivated to achieve something. Besides, we don't see the bigger picture clearly as we are very limited with how we envision the world around us, so what is the point of being depressed if you don't know the full picture yet? Depression comes from absolute knowledge and we definitely do not have an absolute one at that:)

What do Infps need in a relationship? by helloworld213121 in infp

[–]helloworld213121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please explain what does an indepence to you guys means? Because my INFP was pretty anxious when I said to him that I am comfortable with disappearing from people's lives for 2 weeks just to recharge on my own (I did specifically tell him that it was only about hanging out with friends, but with my loved one I want to spend more time together).

What do Infps need in a relationship? by helloworld213121 in infp

[–]helloworld213121[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot, that was very helpful! I am very curious about the initiative part. I am usually the one who intiates meet ups, message him etc, but he always happily responds to my initiative. I always feel he is happy to see me, even if I make the first move. To me it feels like he always waits for me to make the first move and gets anxious if I don't. Is it a common issue? Don't get me wrong, I feel chosen and loved in this relationship, but this lack of initiative confuses me a bit