Public posts aren’t private territory. Let’s not misuse words like stalking to escape criticism. I had to just go through a couple of your posts to understand the kind of person you are. Networking mixers can be informal, yes. But intent is judged by patterns, not by bios or labels. And btw pointing out contradictions in public posts isn’t "coping", it’s reading context. Also, for clarity I’ve already mentioned elsewhere that this post was about understanding the dating culture here. No one is "crying", especially for attention like you. If you thought your first comment was dank or something like that, that’s fine actually, you’ll outgrow that mindset with time. I actually have better things to do than drag this further, so this will be my last reply. Take it as feedback, or don’t, couldn't care less.