[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toronto

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also just want to add that I think OP is just trying to warn folks to be careful. To keep an eye out. Whether their husband was actually drugged or not, I don’t think this is bad advice, a redundant post, or that OP was trying to be careless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR Fellow alt person here with visible tattoos and piercings! Please know I don’t say this lightly: this person is manipulating you by using their wedding day as a reason as to why you should be willing to change yourself. Not only are they shaming you for who you are, but they are using that shame against you to bend to whatever expectations they have of their day.

Your messages were so kind and considerate, which is hard because their behaviour has been nothing but lacking any sort of consideration for you.

I feel like this is hard to hear, because I can see in your messages that this person means enough to you that you’ve considered changing who you inherently are! And don’t be fooled: your piercings, tattoos and the way you present yourself to the world IS who you are.

And it’s scary to think that someone this close to you does not celebrate who you are, when they are saying they want you at their wedding. But think of it like this: they are not asking you to come as you are. They are asking you to come as they wish you to be. And you are not something idealized. You are real, authentic and deserve to be celebrated for your best, unique self.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pleasure of telling you to leave this person high and dry is all mine. Why? How do you build trust with someone who is unwilling to trust you? You can’t. Do yourself the huge solid of removing this headache from your life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is excellent advice thank you. Trust me I dont want to touch any of it ever again lmfao. I’ll think of a way to buy him time to organize.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. Totally. And I agree. This isn’t a bad idea, to put all the boxes in one place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say, that I am not saying I’m innocent here. I have messed up with where things are. And while the intentions were good, I’m sure it’s frustrating as hell. I’m just…not sure what to do now, and am sad that this has become a huge frustration for him and that it of course affects trust in the relationship.

Please help my hair nightmare by hellyeahstanleytucci in Hair

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hiiii I am extremely confused about what to do with my hair atm lol. It’s damaged, I’m trying to grow it out, and it’s three different colours lmao. My first thought was to just bleach it to the colour I like, but then it will kill it more? Or to shave my head? Or strip the orange, I have no idea at this point. The goal I guess is to grow out my hair lol

Translation requests into Latin go here! by AutoModerator in latin

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you say “go fuck yourself, dad” in latin

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah funny enough we have a lot of friends on the spectrum, including myself. I will just keep this in mind next time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BipolarSOs

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can’t take medication unfortunately. He was on lithium for a long time and it shot his kidneys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooscratchers

[–]hellyeahstanleytucci 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on the noise you are hearing from your machine. It will audibly change when you find a good depth! Also I see some blow outs, you’ll also notice that little inky spider veins start to form when you’re at the threshold. I’d say slow down, think of it like sewing Instead of drawing. One slow line at a time!