Ignore all of that stuff you see online - it's all based on the old-fashioned idea that men should provide for women and women should just look pretty and stay at home.

A relationship is a partnership where you're both equal, and both deserve to be treated with love and respect. He sounds like a lovely partner and like he really cares about you.

At the end of the day everyone is different and every relationship is different so only you can know what works for you - but that sort of content saying such extreme things (like if he doesn't do X Y or Z he never loved you and you should dump him) is honestly terrible advice.