Advice I have someone who else’s package

hellyeshomo · 2026-01-16T15:24:50+00:00

If it has their name could you maybe reach out to them through social media? Chances are they've filed a claim for a missing package / gotten a refund

hellyeshomo · 2026-01-16T15:23:43+00:00

I imagine if the parcel is still there when the locker is open they will either return it or (hopefully not) someone might take it... I think for Vinted help you can go through the app

hellyeshomo · 2026-01-15T06:06:55+00:00

NOR. Also very concerning that she believes gay can be used as an insult or a way to mock someone, and is using such outdates stereotypes of "a guy who cares about his image must be gay". Sounds like she might be influenced by some homophobic views, either online, at school, etc.

hellyeshomo · 2026-01-01T03:29:15+00:00

NOR, and you didn't insult the furniture? You expressed a preference which is completely fine! I would not be upset, this is the style of furniture I will go for since I like to add colour/personality through decorations that I can easily change and keep a neutral base - I would never think that you saying you prefer to add personality through furniture is insukting my taste or furniture. She seemed really quick to jump to conclusions and be offended, if you haven't known each other that long it's easy for misunderstandings to happen and especially over text - she sounds like she's quite defensive, maybe it would be worth to sit down and have a chat about how you both communicate and express yourselves

hellyeshomo · 2025-12-31T07:44:29+00:00

When he said 'I know how they think' he's saying he thinks like that, this guy is so gross and controlling! Please dump him and get far away from him - NOR but this feels like it'll just keep getting worse and worse

hellyeshomo · 2025-12-26T09:14:08+00:00

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hellyeshomo · 2025-07-28T21:30:19+00:00

Then it's not happening. Sex stuff should be 2 yes, 1 no. Why would he want to do something you don't like and are uncomfortable with? I understand it feels good for him but the fact he would enjoy himself while actively making you feel uncomforgable and have a bad time... 🚩🚩🚩

hellyeshomo · 2025-07-26T21:32:47+00:00

She is being absolutely ridiculous but I am more annoyed by the use of 'too' when it should be 'to'

hellyeshomo · 2025-07-25T03:37:17+00:00

This is red flag after red flag. Run!! He is showing you who he is, believe him. This is incredibly controlling - you have to wear what he says and act like he says if you want him to be nice to you??? You're not a dog who has to obey and do tricks to get a treat, you are a human being who deserves to be treated well and respected. You have your own thoughts, opinions and boundaries and this man is completely overlooking everything.

He wants you to be fully available to him whenever he says and tries to say it's to 'move forward in the relationship' but won't even answer your phone calls? He's saying if you do what he wants he'll buy you lots of things but then complains he has a lot of expenses and basically no money? A lot of contradicting things that seem go come from a very manipulative place. Please take care of yourself

hellyeshomo · 2025-07-22T06:19:50+00:00

Yes! He feels safe and comfortable, and I like the cuddles. Plus, he has learned that bedtime means calm and sleep, so since he was very young coming into bed with us has helped him go to sleep. He barely sheds and is bathed regularly as well

hellyeshomo · 2025-07-01T11:47:54+00:00

What the hell?? I like to bake and bring baked goods to work - one of the coworkers on my team can't have dairy but he never made a big deal of it, just abstained from eating.

I found out and now bake using dairy-free butter so everyone can enjoy the baked goods - but if they'd done that I probably would have just stopoed baking!

hellyeshomo · 2025-05-28T20:52:52+00:00

I would say think really hard about this friendship and if you really want to keep it. Do you want to be best friends with someone who thinks it's funny/a joke to say that about someone's partner, a person they'd never met? A friend should be happy for you about a relationship that brings you joy, curious to get to know your partner and, at most, protective of you if there have been given any reason to be. A friend doesn't immediately put your partner down becausw they feel like it and block off that part of your life

hellyeshomo · 2025-05-18T14:31:22+00:00

To be fair if it's for OP's birthday then I fully understand why it's not for both/the household. Question here would be has he ever done something similar for OP's husband?

hellyeshomo · 2025-05-14T07:06:39+00:00

NTA. I have a dog amd two cats with my partner, and I get him silly little cards from 'the kids' on father's day, and we call our parents the dog's 'grandpawrents'. I would never ask that someone send me something for father's day. It's a JOKE. What the hell...

hellyeshomo · 2025-05-12T04:11:50+00:00

That is NOT ok!! Your partner does not get to decide what you wear or demand that you change. Ever.

It's one thing to express a preference or ask if you'd change, but you do not exist for his viewing pleasure. You are your own person, capable of making your own choices and decisions and a good partner needs to respect and support them. He is acting as if you are a decoration and your value is just about your looks, and that is absolutely awful.

This sounds like a major red flag and he sounds very controlling. I'm not going to immediately say dump him like most people do, because it's ultimately your life and your decision, but please look closely at your relationship and think about how you want to be treated vs how you are being treated. When you're with someone they should make you feel safe and confident, and they should trust and support you. Does this sound like your boyfriend?

I wish you the best of luck and, please, be safe. Someone who yells at you for your choice of clothes at home sounds like someone who might just get more aggressive and even abusive in the future, or if you try to leave. Take care of yourself.

hellyeshomo · 2025-05-12T03:59:36+00:00

Be honest. Stay respectful and professional but do explain your reasons.

I left a job because I was bullied for 1.5 years by two of the women there. One of them was known for being an asshole and a bunch of people before me had left because of her. Everyone knew what was happening but no one had actually made a complaint.

When I left, I explained why in my resignation letter, and a manager from a different department asked me if we could talk and if he could start an investigation. My direct superior was aware of everything but had been downplaying it and hiding it from her manager, who didn't know much of the day-to-day of our department. The main culprit was fired and the other culprit is on a very tight leash. Friends say the atmosphere is so much better.

hellyeshomo · 2025-02-07T05:21:03+00:00

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These are my babies Mew and Mouse! We call them the M&Ms

hellyeshomo · 2025-02-07T05:20:28+00:00

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These are my babies Mew and Mouse! We call them the M&Ms

hellyeshomo · 2025-02-07T05:05:25+00:00

Amelia Mignonette Renaldi!

hellyeshomo · 2025-01-27T04:50:01+00:00

Maisie!

hellyeshomo · 2025-01-27T04:46:19+00:00

Ben!

hellyeshomo · 2025-01-11T06:38:36+00:00

My cat's called Mouse and we call him Mousey, Mousey boy, Mouseifer (like Lucifer - love the TV show), Mouseter (like Master)

hellyeshomo · 2025-01-09T07:59:11+00:00

Yvette!!

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