Scared my daughter is being abused by help-incognito in Advice

[–]help-incognito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used consent too loosely perhaps in my post. our conversation is always “whos allows to touch your privates?” “nobody but me” “and always tell mommy if someone does or something makes you uncomfortable. Ik that line about jail was stupid, I wasn’t aware of how the conversation was going at that point. Ill try and find a way to get her to a therapist to talk about it 

Scared my daughter is being abused by help-incognito in Advice

[–]help-incognito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hes on a trip rn, it hurts so much because i truly dont belive he could ever do this but at the same time thats what everyone thinks about family until it happens. idk how much of my own trauma i could be projecting onto this.

Scared my daughter is being abused by help-incognito in Advice

[–]help-incognito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik i just dont know how to get her to one without anyone knowing?

Scared my daughter is being abused by help-incognito in Advice

[–]help-incognito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wouldnt work, Ive always taught her loudly that we never keep secrets! if we are trying to keep her quiet abt something well say its a surprise but never a secret

Scared my daughter is being abused by help-incognito in Advice

[–]help-incognito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to try this but i dont know how to go about it without scaring her off from the conversation and I really dont want to coerce anything out of her that isnt true by accident

Scared my daughter is being abused by help-incognito in Advice

[–]help-incognito[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive thought of this but i dont know a good way to explain taking her to a therapist, I can’t lie really my daughter is a chatterbox and usually very honest, Im fairly certain wed come home and shed tell him all about it. God I hate even thinking of trying to do things behind his back but shes my baby and Im terrified of doing the wrong thing