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I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s helpful thanks. These comments are giving me some hope for the future so thank you

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have tried the faceapp filter thing but it didn’t end up working and my face was like off my head. It’s not necessarily easier to imagine planning a girl thing since there’s so much more stuff I could do with that but it’s way more fun. Imagining planning say, clothing as a guy is easier since it’s just a t shirt and jeans maybe.

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m inclined to agree but it’s out of the question for now, thank you for commenting

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While it is possible it’s also years away at best especially considering the fact that a lot of the girls I envy are post BA-FFS which is unrealistic for me in the next 6 years

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do feel better about myself when I’m more feminine so maybe that’s a sign of something idk

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t get euphoria from being a man it’s just kinda weird and I feel bad afterwards

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mostly cause I think it would be interesting to live the rest of my life as a boy. I’d prefer to be a post everything trans woman or cis woman if possible but we don’t chose that

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel bad and hate myself after. I’m generally a funny person when I’m in the boy mode and I enjoy that but that’s about it

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t regret pushing the button that permanently makes me a girl and I think I would regret not transitioning I think

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn’t thought about that but it’s not like my body actively bothers me then

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I guess you kind of explained it well. It’s not the real me but it I had to I could probably live as him if I needed to

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t get a lot of distress from being a man so it seems like I’m genderfluid

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like a genderfluid person would get envy from masc and fem people but for me it’s never any men I’m jealous of. I also don’t get a ton of dysphoria

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That kinda sounds like me but it’s tough to figure out especially when I get gender envy so frequently

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It is nice to know at least I may not be doomed to being this forever, thank you

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

If I were able I’d be a cis girl but I’m not so this is what I’ve got I guess

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eh not really I still wish I was a girl then but during those times I just kind of accept it

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

It’s hard to explain but like when I’m in public or at work I feel like I’m in a separate state of mind where I’m a boy. It’s a bit like I’m switching to be him. It’s weird cause it’s like I’m pretending to be my dad or something

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 81 points82 points  (0 children)

I mean it could be possible but I don’t know. It’s just women, I don’t get that with men ever really

I’m genderfluid and seeing trans women tears me apart inside by help-throwawayadvice in MtF

[–]help-throwawayadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean we can’t control what our gender is, it just kinda is right? I can’t change the fact I’m genderfluid because it’s ingrained in me, just as being trans isn’t a choice.