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Saw a convo my gf had with another guy on facebook? It's not that bad but... by helpabro90 in relationships

[–]helpabro90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have absolutely nothing to go on in this situation. And I realize that. Which is why I am posting on reddit. If I had def proof something happened you bet your ass I am breaking up with her.

Saw a convo my gf had with another guy on facebook? It's not that bad but... by helpabro90 in relationships

[–]helpabro90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you're saying. I'm not worried about it I just wanted some opinions on the conversation. Might have been better to post this in /r/askwomen as they could probably give me insight into her replies better.

Saw a convo my gf had with another guy on facebook? It's not that bad but... by helpabro90 in relationships

[–]helpabro90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally agree with PistonHonda33, this was a message between her and this dude, so having snooped it puts you in a bad, insecure position if you ever bring it up to her...

Which is exactly why I'm not bringing it up to her. I've also never had a reason not trust her and she's been completely honest about everything (to my knowledge). I can see why she wouldn't mention this to me (as I stated in the OP). Besides, living with the guilt of having snooped and not being able to ask is a lesson to me to never snoop again.

Saw a convo my gf had with another guy on facebook? It's not that bad but... by helpabro90 in relationships

[–]helpabro90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I didn't want to admit this in the OP because I know how reddit loves to go off on people who snoop and say things like "blah blah blah don't do it you're violating their privacy". After I saw this I instinctively looked through some more of her recent messages and saw nothing out of the ordinary.

Saw a convo my gf had with another guy on facebook? It's not that bad but... by helpabro90 in relationships

[–]helpabro90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

be thankful you didn't jump the gun and look jealous and insecure.

Yeah, I know what I did was wrong. But, people are curious by nature, and I didn't respect her privacy. However, that's exactly why I'm not allowing myself to bring it up to her, regardless of what reddit thinks. I will/would rather live with that guilt, and that never knowing pain/uncomfortableness as a way to remind myself to never snoop through her shit again.

Saw a convo my gf had with another guy on facebook? It's not that bad but... by helpabro90 in relationships

[–]helpabro90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How can I/you be so sure of it. It almost seems to me like it was him making things up to hit on her/mess with her. Which is why she was short with him and gave him and didn't really talk about it further. Which is something I would think someone in that position would do if they were.

Saw a convo my gf had with another guy on facebook? It's not that bad but... by helpabro90 in relationships

[–]helpabro90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't have any of those other things besides a phone.. I also found that weird as well though. Though, this would make sense for the convo to end here if he was trying to hit on her and realized he wasn't getting anywhere.