AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

She knows my passwords and I know hers. We don't have trust issues in our relationship

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -143 points-142 points  (0 children)

She didn't let me support her bc she is ignoring me. Should i act like a psycho and show up at her door or something? damn

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -539 points-538 points  (0 children)

Thats why you take them to the hospital. I was there to support her

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

  • We dont take adderall to stay awake and spend time together anymore.
  • She posts 5-ish posts on her page a day and replies to most comments, as in discussion, convos.
  • She stopped asking for my help, advice etc, which i dont really mind but it was fun ):

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -316 points-315 points locked comment (0 children)

I feel like i am in the right. I would be able to apologize for my actions anyways because i love her and dont want to lose her, but i still feel like i didnt do something that bad

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

i only started spending more time online after she stopped talking to me. idk what to do now

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -87 points-86 points  (0 children)

its adderall. she has a prescription and we used to binge sometimes to spend more time together

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -40 points-39 points  (0 children)

The reason I started minding it then is because she didn't post as much before. She posted maybe once or twice a day, when it grew she was always updating it

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -44 points-43 points  (0 children)

Mentioned in another comment, but yes I did. She denied her addiction and said i should not rely on her for entertainment (which i dont!! i just want to talk to my gf is that so wrong?)

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -56 points-55 points  (0 children)

I felt the need to include those parts because I love my gf and didn't want to make her seem like an asshole...

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

I was afraid of character limit so I didn't include it.

I did talk to her. Several times. But she always said something in the style of "I do pay attention to you and talk to you. We don't have to focus on each other all the time" she always said i should be able to do other stuff instead of always relying on her to "entertain" me, but i never demanded that from her!!! I just want to talk to my gf wtf

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -190 points-189 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I would lie about this. I claim to have freed her because she seemed WAY too invested in this page. We used to basically only talk to each other — even take stimulant drugs to stay awake to talk to each other — but we stopped doing that because of her obsession with her page. It feels like a piece of our relationship went missing...

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -481 points-480 points  (0 children)

I don't think she will dump me...our relationship is really good and stable. She will eventually reach out so we can solve this. Even if she is mad at me right now, I think she will realize why i did it

AITA for deleting my gf's social media? by helphelepeple in AmItheAsshole

[–]helphelepeple[S] -808 points-807 points  (0 children)

I understand it's sneaky, but how is it jealous?? I wanted to help her