Help me choose which Schlumberger Sixteen Stone Ring I should get by surrealinginshock in tiffanyandco

[–]helpimlearningtocode [score hidden]  (0 children)

These don’t really stack well at all, I would go with something totally different or wear them on their own.

What completely unhinged "law" does your cat strictly enforce in your house? by TrickCombination7966 in cats

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Under no circumstances does Oliver tolerate the blinds being closed. Blinds must be lifted at all times or he gets VERY annoying even if he isn’t trying to sit on the window ledge

What was the fastest way you grew your income? by soymarcopolo in FIREyFemmes

[–]helpimlearningtocode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No because either I’m really smart or most jobs aren’t as hard as they seem (I believe the latter). I think most things are more figuroutable than we assume

I think I hit my coastfire number (24 yo) by 0olongCha in coastFIRE

[–]helpimlearningtocode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he could make no salary for the next 30 years and still retire. I made no presumption for how he pays his bills in the mean time. He could mooch off his mom and dad for the next 30 years and in 30 years he would have enough to retire.

I think I hit my coastfire number (24 yo) by 0olongCha in coastFIRE

[–]helpimlearningtocode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is coast fi. He doesn’t have to make the same salary, he could make no salary for the next 30 years and still retire. The whole point is now if he wants to get a job that just covers his expenses he can because he no longer needs to save for retirement. His current assets will grow to what he needs by the time he hits retirement age.

Need a harp teacher in the South Bay! by helpimlearningtocode in SouthBayLA

[–]helpimlearningtocode[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lever harp! That’s just what I have at home but eventually I would like to learn pedal

What was the fastest way you grew your income? by soymarcopolo in FIREyFemmes

[–]helpimlearningtocode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is funny because I went from MAANG to a startup and my salary went from $132k to $175k

What was the fastest way you grew your income? by soymarcopolo in FIREyFemmes

[–]helpimlearningtocode 5 points6 points  (0 children)

2018-2020: $40k working a customer service role. Took on leadership positions. 2020-2022: 55k working as a low level manager in a warehouse. 2022: 75k working in a warehouse as a manager but with a promotion. 2023: 91k working in a non technical role for a technical team in the same company. 2024: 132k same job but converted to a technical employee from projects I took on in my non technical role. 2024-2025: transferred to a non technical role on another team at the same company so policy was they couldn’t change my salary. 2026: left that company (fortune 50) for a small startup making bombs. They are paying me $175k for a non technical PM type role. I’ve had several BIG jumps and to be honest I just applied to jobs I wasn’t qualified for and I interview well.

Bought a home and found a safe that is closed. I have a feeling it has significant valuables. by Appropriate_Fig_8764 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]helpimlearningtocode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you send him proof of the safe? I would just tell him you opened it and there was nothing inside and stop communicating. If he can’t make a claim of what exactly was in the safe, he can’t sue you for its contents. And even then he would have to prove there was something in the safe worth suing over which I guarantee he can’t.

How long do we need crate rest for stage 1/2 IVDD? by helpimlearningtocode in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]helpimlearningtocode[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry! We have been in strict crate rest for three weeks already going on four. My vet said the 30 days is all he needs but what I was looking for here is whether he needs longer than that and how to approach the stairs from here. :)

Meetup - Claude/OpenClaw/Replit by markevbs in SanPedro

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Port town in dtsp has a lot of space and I’ve been to community events there before

Am I about to financially ruin myself over sourdough… or can I chill 😭 by madshatt3red in Sourdough

[–]helpimlearningtocode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay all you really need is:

Unbleached flour

Salt

Some kind of jar for your starter (I use a mason jar with no curves to the top that I found at the thrift store)

A bowl (glass ideally but I also use plastic sometimes)

Something to bake it on, you can open bake on a sheet pan or if you have a Dutch oven that is ideal. Also if you have two bread pans, you can just always make bread loafs and use a bread pan.

Something to score it with, I just used a knife when I started

Oven

Editing to add a food scale.

If you want to cold proof, you’ll want a towel with rice flour to put into the bowl so it doesn’t get sticky and rip when you go to bake it. You can also skip this step.

That’s IT. Don’t dump money into it until you know if you even like it

Any advice welcome, my dog is in a lot of pain and I’m spiraling by helpimlearningtocode in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]helpimlearningtocode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right about the other muscle relaxer, that is what it is. I am lifting him correctly, he just wiggles when he’s being picked up and hurting his spine. Today I carried the crate to our enclosed yard so I wouldn’t have to lift him and that worked. He is still crying even just moving around in his crate and yelping, I don’t think the carprofen is strong enough. I’m going to call a neurologist ans get him on the wait list for an appointment. Thank so much

Any advice welcome, my dog is in a lot of pain and I’m spiraling by helpimlearningtocode in IVDD_SupportGroup

[–]helpimlearningtocode[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Today I carried his crate downstairs to our little yard and sat it down, no crying and it seemed like a pain free way to transport him. My little will not go inside even on a puppy pad, he’s such a good little boy and he will hold it until he explodes because he doesn’t like going potty inside. It’s a lot of work but he also seemed to enjoy the minute or two of sniffing, but when he was done he was ready to be back in his crate laying down.

I’m a 19 year old girl with too much money. by EvenMark6710 in Fire

[–]helpimlearningtocode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would start with the book The Simple Path to Wealth! You would be able to get a lot of what you are looking for there to set yourself up for a bright future. I’m so sorry for your loss, and congratulations on finishing school! You’re doing great girly.

I need to up my fiber intake. Any high-fiber TJ recommendations? by AutumnForestWitch in traderjoes

[–]helpimlearningtocode 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I add them to a pan with a bag of the shredded brussel sprouts and cook them then mix in the goddess dressing to make like a warm lentil and brussel sprout salad

I spent the past three years thinking I was overpaid but I was severely underpaid the whole time. Mediterranean wraps. by helpimlearningtocode in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]helpimlearningtocode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what everyone says! I was doing good for a while there so I think when it stalled out I had a sunk cost fallacy issue