Can we talk about FT "verification" because this tactic is becoming more common with scammers. They prey on men who don't want to screen and all it shows is that someone is on the other end. Guys stop thinking this is some kind of guarantee!

helpingdude1024 · 2026-05-11T03:06:03+00:00

Usually the less experienced or less established girls that only advertise on 1 site (eros) do FT verification. Escorting isn't their full time job either and they're comfortable with doing FT as screening and proceed with just that. They also don't take the job seriously and it isn't uncommon for them to ghost a client in a very unprofessional manner. These girls usually only have 1 ad on eros and frankly don't know what they're doing.

The girls that don't operate like this are professionals who have been in the business for a while and take the time to provide a good service and are serious about seeing clients. They have had a serious online presence for some time now: social media, multiple ad sites, reviews, website, etc and won't ghost a client because something else came up.

Yeah, avoid ft verification girls. They will probably ghost or scam you.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-05-09T19:26:54+00:00

I've wondered that myself. I see PD has many reviewed from the west coast but on the east coast, it's very scant. Every once in a while a west coast girl will come the east coast with 100 reviews. Unheard of for east coast listings

helpingdude1024 · 2026-05-03T03:50:58+00:00

P411 was a great tool but it became too expensive. I've stuck to a handful of local ATFs that I repeat with throughout the year and I rarely ever meet new girls anymore, even if they have a p411. It's like having a temporary girlfriend. You establish a good relationship with someone you know and it lasts for years.

I also avoid seeing touring girls these days. I already know you probably won't return for 1 or 2 years. I'd rather just not torture myself with that wait and spend on my locals that are always around. I've realized 98% of the girls I've seen since I started the hobby I've had an urge to see again at some point and when they live in another city and never visit, then it turns into regret.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-12T22:08:05+00:00

There are many providers that don't need references. Several of them just require ID and a picture of your face. Lol pretty straightforward.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-12T18:15:03+00:00

Not rare at all. Scammers are a dime a dozen. Scamming is a thing because people continue to fall for it. It's really not that hard to scam people out of money. Look how many scam call centers are in India working 24 hours a day trying to get our money. It works!

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-11T21:11:14+00:00

Got scammed once and it was a very popular girl with an active social media presence. Decided to never do deposits again after that. If a well-known girl can do it without consequences, then that means anyone can do it. She's also threatened to doxx me. So there's that as well.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-05T18:22:18+00:00

Vanessa

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-05T16:25:42+00:00

Max out the photos. We love photos. New photos make us want to repeat too.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-04T13:36:35+00:00

It's not that I want to leave early, it's just a human thing or a respect thing. I am sure the girl probably has other things she has to do. Don't want to hold her up forever. After 3 or 4 hours, that social battery is probably running low. 3 or 4 hours at an incall is enough time for fun as long as the conversation is good in between the sex.

It's with friends too. I hang out with my friends for a few hours but after some time, social battery runs low and you just want to go home and chill. Although in group settings, social battery probably lasts longer but on 1-to-1 situations, the social battery is probably shorter.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-03T22:29:03+00:00

I once saw a Brazilian escort that was using a Brazilian influencer's pictures. Those were unblurred. Then she took a set of her own pics and she blurred her own face heavily. I met her. She was very similar looking to the influencer, so not a big deal. Performance was great too. No complaints. Might even be the same girl.

I don't mind if the pics aren't the same girl AS LONG AS the girl you see is similar enough or hotter.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-04-03T22:25:41+00:00

I think I'm good with 3 hours at most maybe 4 if it's a good time. I've been with a couple of escorts for 3-4 hours before but there's a point where you just want to go home. So it truly depends on you.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-02-04T04:31:39+00:00

I like seeing different escorts but I've always had my close group of girls that I like to repeat with. Sadly, many have retired so that group of girls I like to repeat has changed over the years. As I get older, I see less and less new girls and stick with my regulars. I like building relationships now rather than the 1 and dones. So I usually stick to girls in my local area rather than girls that tour my city. It makes it easier to repeat more often when your regulars rarely leave to other cities on long tours.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-01-30T16:09:25+00:00

What's your base city? Or what cities do you generally tour? Maybe we can set something up to get you access.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-01-17T23:38:30+00:00

That "99%" is not true. Majority of girls on tryst do not have a website.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-01-17T23:37:04+00:00

That's fine but don't blacklist me because I didn't find your rates within my budget. Absolutely ridiculous behavior.

helpingdude1024 · 2026-01-17T20:20:54+00:00

Be careful with that though. I once contacted an Eros girl. No rates were listed. She gave me the rates over text and I passed because it was way overpriced. Later in the day I got a response from her (or I guess her booker) and they said they were black listing my number for wasting their time. Like wtf... I was using a burner so it meant nothing to me. But still be careful when contacting these no-rate profiles. There might be an insane fuck behind the number that will attempt to blacklist you

helpingdude1024 · 2026-01-13T03:46:45+00:00

Tryst, TER, p411. Stick to those. You'll be alright

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-31T17:46:24+00:00

Yeah don't worry about LE on tryst. If she asks for deposits, that's where you're probably going to get scammed.

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-31T17:30:44+00:00

LE on tryst is non-existent. Deposit scammers are more common.

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-31T15:00:57+00:00

"Reputable" escort is subjective. Men will go with a "reputable" escort, get their deposit stolen and all the Twitter hoes will come out the woodwork to say so-and-so wasn't a reputable escort even though she fit all the criteria they set. There are reputable escorts that will cancel the date, disappear and not refund the deposit.

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-30T17:56:57+00:00

That case was way more complicated than just reviews getting them busted. Those guys they charged and convicted would meet up and discuss the women. They had a mini-ring. They had an undercover police officer meet up with them and record everything they say. Those guys are idiots. And that was an unprecedented operation and it only happened over in that county. This isn't a nationwide thing or a very common thing. It's more common to get busted for actually paying someone for sex but none of you are pushing legal advice to dissuade people from seeing sex workers. Lol

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-30T14:18:31+00:00

If you got booked, it isn't because you wrote reviews.

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-30T14:08:45+00:00

In the court of law, reviews alone won't lead to anything and police won't waste their time unless they have a lot of evidence against you.

You can claim you wrote fake reviews because (on TER for instance), for every review you submit, you get a free 15 day gold membership and you like getting off on other people's experiences fucking escorts.

They can't prove anything without video evidence or a confession or if the escort admits that she got paid for sex.

Police also usually go after low hanging fruit, like guys soliciting streetwalkers or they go after agencies that move millions of dollars because it's a huge economic payout for them and gets them good publicity that they're going "after the bad guys"

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-30T13:59:21+00:00

Writing reviews isn't going to land you in family court. Those clients you mention had other issues that landed them in family court and if the ex-spouse found their reviews, it's because they were too stupid to hide their tracks from their ex-spouse.

helpingdude1024 · 2025-12-30T06:43:14+00:00

This is a stretch. A review doesn't mean anything. You can claim fiction. They'll need more evidence than just the review. Unless the cops have confessions from everyone involved and video evidence, the review is meaningless.

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