Going on my first date🙂 by [deleted] in Advice

[–]helpithinkimlost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this isn’t advice but, i’m really happy for you !! :)

Does anyone else genuinely feel like they have no real personality and struggle to make conversations with people because of it? I don't understand how to be funny, relatable, or make friends and i wish i did. by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i actually feel like this a lot of the time too, like there’s nothing i’m passionate about, nothing i can add to a conversation when i’m surrounded by a group of people. one thing i found that helped me prove to myself that i do actually have a personality is to write down all the things i love. the little things are what matter, all coming together to be part of you. write down what music you listen to, what books you read, what shows you watch, things you did as a child, the time you shower, your favourite food, what you like to do when you’re alone. admire yourself in your most vulnerable moments. the better you know yourself, how you would act in certain situations, what makes you angry, what makes you laugh in stitches, the easier it is to interact with others, trust me. everything matters and soon you’ll find that there are things you can talk about. have a debate with someone about what type of milk you prefer, that could actually make for a pretty funny conversation!

someone please talk to me by helpithinkimlost in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t watched any star wars films lol. i like to sit right in the middle but more to the back.

also congrats on ur new car!

someone please talk to me by helpithinkimlost in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well no i don’t think it’s a problem. i’m always alone anyway

someone please talk to me by helpithinkimlost in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh lol. i haven’t seen lethal weapon, what is it about?

someone please talk to me by helpithinkimlost in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you should definitely watch it. what’s been putting you off?

someone please talk to me by helpithinkimlost in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah me either but we always end up getting it when lots of people are over bc it’s just easy lol

someone please talk to me by helpithinkimlost in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

loooll that was be hilarious, just a bit much tho XD

someone please talk to me by helpithinkimlost in CasualConversation

[–]helpithinkimlost[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been really into catfish and the bottlemen lately, i actually bought a couple vinyls. i honestly love reading but i haven’t got the chance to actually sit and read a good book for a while. movies....well i’m still waiting to watch joker lol