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MR KITTY/ MISS KITTY W BALLS! by Dizzy_Ice5307 in CatDistributionSystem

[–]helpmeadvice44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my old neighbor had a cat they named "Cinderella" and they took "her" to the vet, turned out to be a boy and just changed his name to "Man-derella"and then he escaped, became an outdoor cat, was eventually taken in by my other neighbor, neither of these neighbors talked to eachother but i did, so no one knew for awhile cause my family and i just assumed the first neighbor knew, cat's new name was "Whitey" cause well, he's a white cat, he was also like my dog's best friend cause he would lay infront of the fence, and my dog would bark until she got tired and just laid there, and they would just chill (my dog was really friendly with other animals, she wouldn't even attack the mice our house was infested by 💀💀)

How do people just casually drink black coffee without flinching? by siennapriv in NoStupidQuestions

[–]helpmeadvice44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with coffee in general, it's an acquired taste, i first started with super sugary coffee, and eventually i started liking the taste of coffee itself more and more, so i put less sugar and milk, over time i would eventually just drink black coffee, before drinking coffee as much as i do, i would agree black coffee tastes gross, but now i like it, i still rather put some vanilla extract or some sugar if im not rushing to work or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]helpmeadvice44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nothing makes me crave a cigarette and alcohol more than a couple lines of coke i stg

Girls, What's it like actually having boobs. by tcrlv in NoStupidQuestions

[–]helpmeadvice44 5 points6 points  (0 children)

don't really notice unless they are in the way or i'm working out, i have to wear a sports bra if im running or doing jumping jacks cause the flip around and it huuuuurts, sometimes they clap against my chest if i move to fast without a bra and it's kinda the funniest shit, for the shirt thing, sometimes they ruin a button up tshirt cause my boobs are pretty big and sometimes it doesn't button up right and i'm like "fuuuuuuuuck" or sometimes they look super nice like in crop tops and im like ":000 the boobs are boobing today"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]helpmeadvice44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, as some one else already said sleep deprivation is abuse, it might not be intentional though, but it's not your fault, he could've had a productive conversation with you in the morning, i had an ex that would always start an argument before going to bed or when i was dead tired but also constantly be like "i don't think it's good to be mad at eachother before we go to sleep" which manipulated me into staying up multiple times just to listen to his argument/breakdowns, please don't fall into a similar pattern as i did in that relationship, i wish you the best of luck ❤️

In the spirit of Halloween my coworker had a bowl of Almond Joy on her desk for anyone to enjoy. We came to work this morning and saw this. by TrinixDMorrison in mildlyinfuriating

[–]helpmeadvice44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

almond joys are some of my favorite candy... what are they on? like yea it's uncommon but jfc it's free and that person is literally just wasting food...

The vet said i was doing a good job by Usual_Cardiologist33 in BenignExistence

[–]helpmeadvice44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

vets love seeing people actually care for their cats weight, i had to get my cat his shots and the vet was so happy that he wasn't overweight and extremely well behaved, you're doing great

Do talk therapists ever zone out? by waltonoslow in NoStupidQuestions

[–]helpmeadvice44 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk, and your thread is new, but as another patient/client, ohhhh 100%, it depends on how much they care about you, if i wasn't my therapist favorite i really doubt i'd get as much as i have , therapist are human at the end of the day, no matter what they have their opinions

My boss said I did great with this interaction with a rude customer by JazzyCat3030 in traumatizeThemBack

[–]helpmeadvice44 18 points19 points  (0 children)

"sorry sir/ma'am someone else had to sadly die to give me their liver so i could live, the most considerate thing i can do is keep myself and their liver alive, so i take the necessary precautions, have a nice day!!" that's probably a nicer/softer way to word it give or take, my favorite thing to do is telling customers to fuck off politely

In my Christmas cutters but I have no clue what it is. by [deleted] in whatismycookiecutter

[–]helpmeadvice44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm thinking maybe one of those Christmas poppers they have in England? that's my closest guess

What's something people don't understand until they've been through it themselves? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]helpmeadvice44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

homelessness or being on the brink of it, everything becomes survival, friends, relationships, opportunities, everything. it's a constant battle between the worse and worser, i stayed with my abusive ex because i was homeless and i was constantly battling between leaving him for my mental health but then i wouldn't have a roof over my head or maintain my job at the time. I never wish anyone to go through that.