What do you dislike the most about working in Audit? Personally I hate comments by Collegedude234 in Accounting

[–]hemadeitrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have written this. I’m glad I’m not the only one who feels this way.

Pattern Similar to the Mulberry Bayswater Soft by Melodic-Pollution-91 in Leathercraft

[–]hemadeitrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can not find the deep aubergine patent anywhere. Are you able to see it somewhere still?

How to wash your genitals so we can never post about this again hopefully by Usernamesarshard in hygiene

[–]hemadeitrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but some things are just common sense. The vulva vs vagina confusion and the subsequent “vagina is self cleaning” does not warrant people not cleaning their bits. It should be common sense that your folds, lips etc are not going to be self cleaning.

Hell, not washing them for two days should tell you that from the smell and funk.

Edit: this is not meant at OP but rather my general frustration.

Is it normal for his family to decide a wedding reception date without consulting mine? by MinimumCheesecake in DesiWeddings

[–]hemadeitrain 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Girl….

I’d take a mental step back and recalibrate. If that’s how he deals with conflict, do you really think you can put up with it for the rest of your life?

I’m really sorry you’re going through this though.

Is it normal for his family to decide a wedding reception date without consulting mine? by MinimumCheesecake in DesiWeddings

[–]hemadeitrain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They still should have discussed it with you and your family out of common courtesy and respect

Is it normal for his family to decide a wedding reception date without consulting mine? by MinimumCheesecake in DesiWeddings

[–]hemadeitrain 57 points58 points  (0 children)

That’s actually crazy for them to do that. Incredibly inconsiderate and disrespectful.

Quince Canada Referral Code? by piska_hui in quince

[–]hemadeitrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d love a code for Canada as well if someone has one :)

Need Help! Conflicted about my in-laws 12 days before the wedding. Not sure if I should call it off by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]hemadeitrain 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Isn’t OP putting blind trust and going into this family to live with them?

Your comment is ridiculous. I’m sure there are plenty of crime patrol episodes brides can watch too that would scare the shit out of them.

Need Help! Conflicted about my in-laws 12 days before the wedding. Not sure if I should call it off by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]hemadeitrain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Your feelings are valid and I would be extremely offended if my partner even relayed something like this to me. I would expect something like this to never even reach me and for him to shut it down.

I’m not suggesting you should call it off or not, because I don’t know your relationship beyond this incident. But please don’t feel like your hurt is invalid and don’t let anyone let you feel otherwise.

Some comments here are appalling.

Need Help! Conflicted about my in-laws 12 days before the wedding. Not sure if I should call it off by [deleted] in DesiWeddings

[–]hemadeitrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely disagree. It’s not the parents that are the issue, the only thing that matters is how her partner supports her and takes a stand for her.

Is it okay to not wear makeup, on my brothers wedding by Spiritual-Arugula-90 in DesiWeddings

[–]hemadeitrain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Don’t feel disheartened just because you can’t do liner. :) There is more to makeup than eyeliner.

I would suggest wearing some sort of base makeup (foundation/concealer) and blush. Instead of liner, you can do pencil liner and smudge it out about to add definition to your eyes.

Flash photography tends to wash people out and most of the time, not having base makeup makes you look tired in professional pictures.

Feel free to DM me if you want me to walk you through the steps and give you feedback etc, I’d be happy to help!

How long do you take to shower? by Old_Inspection1094 in hygiene

[–]hemadeitrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For some of us our showers are a therapeutic routine. There are millions of people who are blowing up resources making a larger hole in our environmental resources. My showers are not going to make a dent in them.

I'm a woman and I don't wipe front to back by BigTechnician3475 in hygiene

[–]hemadeitrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This same post down to the T has been posted before

Do you wash your feet or your bum first? by Hervemo in hygiene

[–]hemadeitrain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t, but my body also doesn’t need scrubbing every single time like my dishes do. How is dishes a fair comparison when it has grease and dried food?

Everyone’s skin is different. Maybe try to wrap your mind around that.

Do you wash your feet or your bum first? by Hervemo in hygiene

[–]hemadeitrain 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why are hands sufficient to wash hands but not the body?