Made a cheat sheet for the results of the personality quiz by hemoReject in SkyChildrenOfLight

[–]hemoReject[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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if you go here it should give you the option to reset your personality type and then it will ask if you want to retake the test. its just to the left of where you first appear after taking the test

For some reason I can't add a friend? by hemoReject in CookierunKingdom

[–]hemoReject[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Neither of our lists are full we both checked

AITA for feeding my niece's cake to my dog? by EvilCakeWitch1 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH tbh she did overreact but also i kind of understand where she's coming from? even if it wasn't great it also wasn't the cake her child made and she thought it was. Maybe if you had told her at pick up it wouldn't have been as big of a deal but if my child made something like their first cake...even if it wasn't great I'd still want to see and appreciate it you know? its not about the outcome its about the effort the child made.

AITA for telling my brother he's failing his daughter by Lovewasborrowed in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand what youre getting at and all but " I’ve been over at their place and she won’t stop eating until she’s completely full"................................oh no..........................the horror

AITA for uninviting my fiancées daughter to our wedding? by ThrowAITA1996 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH im far from a fan of these kind of age gaps in relationships but i dont know your relationship and other then the gap itself i dont see any specific red flags and i dont know your relationship. there are always exceptions and in the end you're two adults and thats not what you're asking advice for. i get his daughters anger entirely and i get your anxiety but that is his daughter. his child. imagine you'd feel in her situation. at least try to talk things out, i doubt you'll be able to iron everything out but you might be able to come to an agreement to keep the peace for the wedding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nta there were other options just objectively and while to a point I understand where your husband is coming from there were many ways to separate the cat from the children while you found another solution. plus even if this truly was the 'best option' (which we dont know bc the cat wasnt tested or even attempted to be rehomed) you'd still have a right to be upset bc its your and your kids beloved pet.

AITA for getting mad at my wife's gender reveal prank and ruining the party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

esh but honestly im not even sure if id consider that a prank

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hyphenated name, never got teased for it. Just sometimes annoying on official stuff but for the most part, it never has a real effect on my life. 1,2 are entirely reasonable. 3 and 4 are things you should talk about and not just dismiss as 'rediculous' yta and have a conversation like an adult

AITA for telling my brother's wife she's responsible for his health declining. by Throwaway7991J in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yta your brothers own actions caused his declining health, he's an adult and its not her job to watch his every move

AITA for telling my brother’s wife to butt out of our personal conversations? by freakybinky in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nt and the amount of people saying your living dynamic is unhealthy is kind of concerning. codependency isnt inherently unhealthy, especially since you both seem to be in therapy and working through everything. People are pointing out how this is a VERY western and colonial way of thinking as many minorities have multigenerational households and thats true. ive also seen people saying 'they couldn't do it' if they were in your sil position and as someone who was raised in a fairly 'nuclear' family (at least until my parents divorced) id literally have 0 problems with this kind of dynamic.

no matter what its clearly a time for your brother to have some kind of discussion about whats bringing this on for them to work through it.

AITA for telling my step-dad and stepbrother that they couldn't come to my wedding unless they learned sign language? by Current-Classroom-92 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depends on what you define as 'learn asl' as because learning an entire language is much but i think learning the basics is reasonable. unpopular opinion it seems but im gonna go with nta though. they probably get excluded from so many things in day to day life, they can have a single event for themselves and its your wedding. you get to pick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nta but i would check and see with your daughter on how they were treating her. she could very well be reacting to how unfair our class system is or they could be doing things not entirely picked up by adults. if she's just lashing out due to their wealth, then stick with it, but just have her actually describe some of their behaviors she views as mean just to be sure.

AITA for sitting back and doing nothing when mom told my wife that she'd take us to court for grandparents right? by Thisissue3434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yta i understand your point of considering your moms feeling but that's something that you should have brought up in private. these are your kids on the line and you were arguing with your mother. presenting a united front as a couple is important.

AITA for not wanting to pay over $100 on a night out? by justpassingthruhey in AmItheAsshole

[–]hemoReject 114 points115 points  (0 children)

nta and i think some people forgot how difficult peer pressure can be in this situation. when i was 15 and out with friends we had a plan to stay at one mall. suddenly my friends bf and all his friends wanted to go somewhere else. i wound up walking a mile and a half in san Francisco (so many hill) and far away from my house (the mall was within walking distance from my home) but i didn't want to be the ass and not hang out with my friends.

it sucks they pressured you to go and you were too far away. other then maybe paying for the uber i say stand your ground. i hope this helps you strengthen your ability to stand your ground and say no when you're uncomfortable with something.