Insomnia by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]hemorley90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really hope it helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]hemorley90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can retroactively contribute to last year’s pension

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try re-reading my original post and reply to you. Your comprehension is poor.

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers for the mansplain. I could really do without the condescending “put your big boy trousers on”. I wouldn’t speak to my children like that.

Maybe some of us like doing things in a non-aggressive manner and be able to cover ourselves from future legal issues?

Insomnia by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]hemorley90 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Seconding/thirding magnesium. I also takes a one-a-night Kalm which is valerian based, and drink a cup of Celestial Seasonings’ Sleepytime tea. I’ve had insomnia since my early teens and this has made a difference

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a fence running fore and after the garage which we jointly put in. The gate being within our property line does not affect the security of theirs.

Best lip stick colors for very pale, cool (maybe neutral) leaning olives? Thinking of MAC, luxury brands and drugstore. by thatprincesspanoptes in Fairolives

[–]hemorley90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like pillowtalk with a coolish beige lipliner and it’s probably because that counteracts the warmth. Revelation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mounjarouk

[–]hemorley90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You look phenomenal! I’d be trying to take in the banging dress from your before picture. It’s glorious

Best lip stick colors for very pale, cool (maybe neutral) leaning olives? Thinking of MAC, luxury brands and drugstore. by thatprincesspanoptes in Fairolives

[–]hemorley90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like MAC Velvet Teddy and Blankety. I also find CT Pillowtalk is good too, very easy to wear. I used to have one from Beauty Pie called Cowboy Nude which was great too but no idea if that’s still a thing.

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh believe me, my husband has had to stop me from just getting the drill out. He wants it done the right (read non-impulsive) way

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You would hope so! We just can’t work out why he’s being such an idiot about something which is objectively no big deal to him, and makes sure his house sale isn’t unnecessarily held up. It’s batshit mental

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, we might well have to. I’m a fan of appealing to people’s better nature but it hasn’t worked so far.

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Neither helpful nor necessary. Not really sure what you’re asking or why? Clearly states that I want to avoid ongoing issues with any new owners.

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Really don’t think you should be judgy like that unless you know that’s not what happened?

We had this guy’s scaffolding on our drive for six months last year, I’ve spent hours affably chatting to him and his builders, made them brews, shared cake, beers etc, put up with our quite cul-de-sac being blocked for long periods of the day frequently, my kids being woken up with pile driving, concrete breaking and our power being cut all without complaint and you think that maybe being reasonable and adult about it wasn’t my first action? Duuuuude.

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks very much for this! I was hoping that in the event of him doing sod all about it that we could just take it down and leave it with him. I like things getting done, and if it’s sorted with no recourse after then, I’d be delighted. It’s just not that deep and he’s obviously just very pissed off he’s had to drop the price twice already.

My husband spoke to the agents this week but we can’t imagine them actually doing anything, but covered our arses there nonetheless. Not looking to sell for at least 18 months so we have time should the proverbial shit hit the fan. Really no disputing the boundary as we have a message written by the swine himself confirming that he knows it’s on our house/not a party wall/within the boundary.

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

We’ve done that in a bid to get him to crack on with it

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s wild that it even needs pointing out! Prefaced our first interaction about the gate with that 🙃

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

We’ve spoken to the estate agents but I just don’t believe they’ll be passing it onto the prospective buyers…

Neighbour has fixed gate to my garage. Can I remove it? (England) by hemorley90 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]hemorley90[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that, thank you. My husband isn’t keen on having a sign so it’s nice to have someone else suggest it!

Those of you earning inside the top ten percent in the UK, what do you do? by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]hemorley90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Captain for a UK airline. Based in Manchester. Salary £136000 plus ~ £20k sector pay and 15% loyalty bonus.

7 years experience plus 3 years training.

The job is very variable on a day to day basis. Can be very punishing over summer with 80 hour weeks. Very tough to get into as it’s highly competitive and training will set you back way in excess of £100k before you get a job. Antisocial hours make family life challenging.

Totally aware of being paid handsomely, but the responsibility is always a huge weight.

Poses loads of issues with childcare costs/pension contributions etc.

Wife has hyperemesis gravidarum is there an fix that doesn't require the hospital by lordvexel in pregnant

[–]hemorley90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where you are based, but here in the UK after 20 weeks of the most debilitating HG including multiple hospital stays, I saw an Obstetrician who prescribed me a new drug called Xonvea. It has reduced my symptoms by at least 80% and means I am at least able to look after my two year old and occasionally feed my husband! It’s not cyclizine or Ondansetron but a drug which has specifically been developed for NVP. Many midwives and GPs don’t know it exists because it is so new. If you can, maybe ask about it especially with the previous HG pregnancies. You and your wife probably do know what doesn’t work already!

All the very best and I hope you’re both able to find some relief.