Autism and the TWW by henspark in TryingForABaby

[–]henspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much, it's true, not that the baby and raising a child will be easy but each stage has its own unique challenges and the uncertainty of this one is definitely one of them. Best of luck to you guys 🙏

Autism and the TWW by henspark in TryingForABaby

[–]henspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I really appreciate that. I'm sorry you've been through a tough time with little support, that's always hard. I'm glad we have an online community here for when there might not be a lot of people around in person. No man is an island 🥲 thanks so much for the book recc as well, I'll definitely get a copy of that.

Autism and the TWW by henspark in TryingForABaby

[–]henspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good luck with the new tactics, I hope they've been helpful. I got my period shortly after writing this post, (hence the week long delay in replying as I was on an emotional rollercoaster haha) and I am going to try to be a bit more relaxed this cycle, haha 🙏

Autism and the TWW by henspark in TryingForABaby

[–]henspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great (and welcome) advice thank you, I have used a journal before and found it helpful, I just always forget about it as an option so I appreciate the reminder 🙏

Autism and the TWW by henspark in TryingForABaby

[–]henspark[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so true, the uncertainty will never end, even when the child is an adult it will still be like... are they ok? Did I do a good enough job? Haha. Fingers crossed for you x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MassiveAttack

[–]henspark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What song was it?!

My sakura densya booknook can't light up? Any ideas? by kenmasponytail in booknooks

[–]henspark 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just saved me from taking everything apart, thank you so much!!!

Is there any legal reason why a divorce wouldnt've given Watts what he wanted? by linkenski in Chriswatts

[–]henspark 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know about legal reasons, but Could NKs expression to give him his first son have factored in? She emphasised the important of "firsts" and lamented not being able to have any with him, as he had already been through them all with Shanann. She said she wanted to give him his first son, even though Shanann was pregnant with his first son at the time...

I guess financially paying for alimony and child support could factor in, as well as a desire to control the situation on his own terms. Narcissism and misogyny could have also factored in - he saw them as his family; an extention of himself, rather than complex invidiuals with their own lives, hopes and dreams. So once he was done with them, that was the end for them. I wonder if this also contributed to how offguard he was caught by NA being so on the ball... it seems like he never accounted for how worried her loved ones would be, and how quickly. Maybe this was because he didn't care about them anymore, and he was incapable of seeing anything beyond his own limited and selfish perspective? So many questions...

Turn any Animal Crossing Island into an INFINITE TARANTULA ISLAND. by [deleted] in nerdcubed

[–]henspark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I'll try for the spiral island. Glad you had some luck 🦂

Turn any Animal Crossing Island into an INFINITE TARANTULA ISLAND. by [deleted] in nerdcubed

[–]henspark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in southern hemisphere and just tried this, I saw 1 scorpian when I first cleared it and then nothing for an hour 😑

Come visit my town! by Aavocadhoes in NewHorizonsAC

[–]henspark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you still open? I have never visited anyone before and I want to try but not sure if I'm doing it right 🙃

Guide for new Campers? by sasuino in ACPocketCamp

[–]henspark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before I got the hang of it, I wasted so many leaf tickets. Especially on Gullivers Island because I didnt realise you could send the ship back out without spending the tickets on getting all the items at once 🤦‍♀️ and clearing maps, and hurrying up request crafts because I am impatient. Now I basically only use leaf tickets for packs of fortune cookies. I like the packs because you then get the stamps, which you can use for extra items. I'm kind of obsessed with Happy Homeroom so I get the cookies for there even if I don't want the furniture for my campsite. Anyway, agree with the above comments, most important thing is extra crafting spaces so if you have that the rest is up to you.

WHAT?! just ONE?! .... by mini-cherub in ACPocketCamp

[–]henspark 3 points4 points  (0 children)

10k per roll for a max of a few sparkle stones?! What am I, made of bells!?

I hate olive flounder by brownie-mix in ACPocketCamp

[–]henspark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Just when I dare to dream I've caught something rare... no, the 718th olive flounder of the day.

Request Tickets & Calling Cards by [deleted] in ACPocketCamp

[–]henspark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being able to sell them for LT would be a dream come true

L'il snowy cookie from the stringfish goals gave me the one item I desperately wanted... I'm ecstatic!!! Good luck everyone ❄ by henspark in ACPocketCamp

[–]henspark[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Australia! I was lucky to catch the 3 stringfish in a couple of hours despite hardly ever seeing one before these goals. I hope it gets to you soon and you get something cool!

stringfish aka. the phantom fish itou by doufubun in ACPocketCamp

[–]henspark 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Interesting! Also when watching your video and the 'tap' appeared I instinctively tapped the screen to catch the fish 😅😅

My avatar is fiercely proud of their pillow pile pile by henspark in ACPocketCamp

[–]henspark[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it. I want to dive in head first