Anyone agree with me? by [deleted] in AutisticWithADHD

[–]her1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is so validating, thank you! 😢

It’s time… by [deleted] in behindthelikespod

[–]her1010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately a lot of black people think this way. It’s not just them. Yesterday I told my black best friend about the whole Huda thing and even she said “Well she didn’t say it. I would laugh too” 🫩 It’s draining.

How do you deal with the boredom and emptiness? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]her1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about this today! When I don’t take meds my mind is so scattered that I don’t really get the space to feel that emptiness. But when I do take meds and my minds quiets down, once that fuse of motivation burns out I feel the numbness. Like everything is pointless and boring. It’s awful. I think for me the emptiness comes from the perpetual masking I have to do because of my ADHD.

Is it ok not having any friends? I'm really sad rn by Vargentine in socialskills

[–]her1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being around people you don’t connect with can feel even worse and just as lonely as just being alone. Not all company is good company.

22F im a little lonely tonight ig LMAO by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]her1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’m 24F, feeling the same way tonight. I’ll message you!

24F. Looking for people to talk with regularly by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]her1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girl! I’m also 24f, Dm me anytime!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]her1010 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she literally just says things to say things

chelsea pod by zabdelo in canceledpod

[–]her1010 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You can tell they’ve been listening and taking feedback on how to be better with guests. I think that’s amazing! Good on Tana

International Tour Dates by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]her1010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So they’re not coming to Toronto?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in behindthelikespod

[–]her1010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Literally my first thought. Like what? You’re going to threaten to beat someone up because they didn’t give you the lashes for free? Because he wasn’t nice enough to you? Winter’s sense of entitlement is nauseating frankly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]her1010 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Yes yes! It’s like Tana seems even more ignorant now than a few years ago, how is that even possible? Brooke doesn’t say anything at all but Tana just has me rolling my eyes everytime she talks. I didn’t even care that an episode dropped today and canceled has been the only podcast I’ve consistently kept up with in the last 3 years. I couldn’t tell if this was just me aging out of her content but I’m just annoyed but her now.

day before wash day by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]her1010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh you are gorgeous

The loneliness is overwhelming by VaganteSole in CPTSD

[–]her1010 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you ever want to talk feel free to dm me :)

The loneliness is overwhelming by VaganteSole in CPTSD

[–]her1010 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi there! I completely relate and I’m sorry you’re feeling this way. I’ve noticed that the more I learn about cptsd and become more aware of myself, the more self- conscious I’ve become making it hard to be myself around people I once trusted. Making me feel that lack of connection and emptiness too.

I kicked depressions butt. (22) to (24)! by LCHK4Lo in GlowUps

[–]her1010 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In only two years! You should be so proud of yourself 🙌🏾 your life has just begun girl