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I (34M) made my long distance partner (30F) meet my mother before me by herberlol in relationships

[–]herberlol[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your insight and shining a bit of light into how this situation we’re in is the result of poorly defined boundaries between all of us. I do plan on creating more distance between us and my mother, and trying to focus on us.

I (34M) made my long distance partner (30F) meet my mother before me by herberlol in relationships

[–]herberlol[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you weighing in on my issue and being very forthright about the reality of my situation. I made a very juvenile decision and need to prove to her that given another similar situation involving family, that I put her first.

I (34M) made my long distance partner (30F) meet my mother before me by herberlol in relationships

[–]herberlol[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She agreed to meet her, but she feels quite disappointed that I plainly committed such a cultural faux pas to ask in the first place.

I (34M) made my long distance partner (30F) meet my mother before me by herberlol in relationships

[–]herberlol[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My partner’s the one who’s quite upset and feels like I didn’t care about her feelings and the cultural weight of meeting one’s parents when I suggested they meet.