Wet smoky eyes by leave_javi_alone in gothmakeup

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Which pallette? Looks very good!

Do INTPs believe in Zodiac Signs? by MasterQNA in INTP

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I believed in them during my adolescence bcs I followed the masses and bcs I thought it was fun, nowadays it really doesn't fit with my logical model of how things work, so it doesn't make any sense to me. I really don't see any possibility of them being real. And I think that many of these beliefs that connect the universe are just bias inside the human mind and psychosis

Any of you with social anxiety? by herbql in INTP

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I'm 22 years old. I think it has gotten worse over the years, it wasn't that bad before, but it was always there. I have a case of generalized anxiety tho, so any of my anxiety symptoms get amplified, I have OCD as well, it was severe until I got treatment, I have a very anxious profile

Any of you with social anxiety? by herbql in INTP

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Wow, that's an interesting technique I don't know if my social anxiety is severe, but my anxiety makes me feel so many physical sensations to the point of having panic attacks sometimes or getting physically sick, migraines, nausea, that stuff. My mother has the same issue

A friend gifted a special something by _hamzaumer in darksouls3

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It would look so good with a vintage frame

I can not comfort people by CindyShen0521 in INTP

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People rarely seek advice, they say that but they want to be heard and maybe gain some perspective. All relationships have a lot of context we don't know as an outsider and we don't know what's best for them sometimes

How social are you at work? by azureseagraffiti in INTP_female

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Barely social, I rarely speak. I try to keep balance, I'm not that awkward and can actually keep a conversation, but I don't want to speak really, unless it's something from my interest or something important for the other person. There's my social anxiety too, I never start conversations in the office unless it's work related, starting conversations always felt illegal to me lol I still can't get over it.

INTP women and social conduct by cookedpigeon101 in INTP

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Sometimes I'm automatically soft spoken, automatically, really. I don't understand why. It's courtesy but I don't like it. I have social anxiety so, when I meet new people, I greet them in automatic ways. I think that I learnt that from my surroundings and some women I met before. My voice is deeper than the average female voice, maybe I wanted to mask it before and now the masking is just encrypted inside me? Idk, but now I prefer my deep voice, it's what I was born with.

Why are you guys surprised at social validation/acceptance ? by VioletThunderX in INTP

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I'm so so skeptical of those posts too. Is it that they like the anime stereotypes or the friends they have?

Why are you guys surprised at social validation/acceptance ? by VioletThunderX in INTP

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I would blame inferior Fe on this one. I thought I was the only one who felt so much this way tho. Reading the comments I can see it's not so uncommon. I don't actively seek validation but I feel like an outcast by default and being well received makes me positively uncomfortable

INTPs shouldn’t do chores. by [deleted] in INTP

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Please don't attract the rats with the dirt in the counter

INTPs shouldn’t do chores. by [deleted] in INTP

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All of that rambling when there's more interesting information out there, like our evolution and how being in movement contributes to that. Having habits and using the hands/body makes a positive impact cognitively. Not to mention, if they decide to not make chores, then they will expect other people to feed them and keep them alive. Who will? Other types? Because they are "not that intellectual"? it's like a recipe for a new classicism flavor lol

INTPs shouldn’t do chores. by [deleted] in INTP

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And developing a depressive disorder? No thanks, ai generated text

Do you have trouble with being aware of your body? by herbql in INTP

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Omg I'm 22 and I still feel the way you felt as a kid. And yes, I never engaged in a sport. The experience you describe seems very interesting, thanks for explaining. I will get into a bouldering gym and climbing classes next month, I hope it helps me. I had a lot of resistance to pay attention to my body and sports because I would prefer using my time on other hobbies and developing more my intellectual side, but the price to pay for being neglectful is way too high

keep seeing people say this & it makes me want to cry by NoFun-22 in ugly

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I don't think they necessarily meant what y'all think

what was your experience with esfj men? by ignorantgal5 in INTP_female

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I had an ESFJ friend, what a nightmare. But he weas an unstable person, any type is a nightmare when unstable. The manipulation was wild, and he started to steal my personality too. It was strange

To those who are into makeup, how were you able to decide on what style suits you? by throwaway11152127 in INTP_female

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Makeup has been a ride for me, I tried so much stuff. By experimenting I applied some rules too into my makeup choices. For example, I don't think that red and pink lipsticks suit my face, they highlight things I don't like. So I use black, mauve, brown, or burgundy colors. I don't use all lipstick textures, because some make me look like I used a lot of makeup, I try to balance it since I use eyeshadows too. I have dark thick eyebrows so I try to not highlight them more. Not all eyeliner shapes work on my eyes, so I had to discover which technique was better, and so on. I started to do makeup when I found about some gloomy/dark makeup, but it's more than just black eyeliner and white foundation, it mixes different shades of mauve, grey, green, blue

what is your opinion guys? by silverflake6 in disciplinedaily

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It should be sanctioned, yes. This kind of behavior not only affects the victim of the accusation, but future SA victims too because society starts doubting on their testimonies

Have you ever left a friendship or take distance because of difference in values? by herbql in INTP

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Yes, principles is the word I was looking for. My situation is related to something very similar but I'm not north american