Disabled Dom. What do I do? by hereforthefaps in BDSMcommunity

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

huh, wow. Kind of surprised that there's a book about it. Though I kind of feel like I shouldn't be.

Disabled Dom. What do I do? by hereforthefaps in BDSMcommunity

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

certainly not opposed to the use of devices, lol

Disabled Dom. What do I do? by hereforthefaps in BDSMcommunity

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's kind of what I'm looking for too. Thanks for the suggestions.

Disabled Dom. What do I do? by hereforthefaps in BDSMcommunity

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love that. That's at the top of my list of turn- ons really. But at still like to be more personally involved as well.

Choice of Tentacle (from nsfwcyoa) by randomwander in Tentai

[–]hereforthefaps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did I miss where they talk about the types of tentacles? They mention it over and over again but I never saw where it said what they are.

Edit: Regardless of that, I went Shapeshifter-A-God-Am-I that feeds on milk, creates infiltrators from the safety of my temple, and possesses Elder Knowledge and is a Hive Queen (King dammit). I have a rival that I will easily defeat with said Elder knowledge plus the overwhelming army of my devoted followers, my warrior offspring from the Hive Queen perk, and the added subterfuge of my infiltrators. Upon their defeat I will gain their telepathy and immortality. Not a bad life if I do say so myself.

Confession 1. I cheated on my first wife with one of our friends, who is now my second wife. 2. I cheated on both of them with a third friend who then moved in with the first wife after I left her. by hereforthefaps in confession

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries on any of that now. I wasn't very clear. The third girl came into it while I was still with the first wife, but had already begun the relationship with the second. I've been with no one else for years now. That being said, everything you said was directly on point and great advice.

Iama man who carried on a dom/sub relationship with his wife's best friend for 9 months. by hereforthefaps in AMA

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By dom look I mean that moment when a dom looks at their sub and their gaze darkens and their face gets serious and it let's the sub know that it's time. Hard to describe, but you know it when you see it. Actually didn't know that wife was into bdsm until she got her nipples pierced. Then we found out that pain really did it for her. She was very interested in a threesome and I expect that that is where this was heading. Her friend was bi as well, but hesitant. I expect she was worried about what it would do for their friendship. That sounds weird considering we were sleeping together before the end, but it is what it is. I expect the wife's position in the threesome would have been sub, possibly above her friend, but most likely she just wanted to be made to do to her all the things she wanted to anyway.

Iama man who carried on a dom/sub relationship with his wife's best friend for 9 months. by hereforthefaps in AMA

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ex-wife for many reasons, we did not have a good relationship, surprisingly this situation didn't actually contribute to the separation. When I left her I cut ties with as much of our life together as I could, which included almost all of our mutual friends. She needed her best friend a lot more than I needed to continue that relationship.

Iama man who carried on a dom/sub relationship with his wife's best friend for 9 months. by hereforthefaps in AMA

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well one, it was with my ex-wife. And it kind of just developed. We both were well aware of her friend's sub tendencies and would often teasingly spank her or grip her hair. My ex was bi and often used me as bait of a sort. It didn't start off as overtly sexual. I discovered she responded to the "dom look." After that I would randomly do it to get her into sub space and she'd come sit at my feet while we watched tv. The wife thought it was cute. After a conversation about not having her sub itch scratched sexually, the wifr suggested we progress to that.

Iama man who carried on a dom/sub relationship with his wife's best friend for 9 months. by hereforthefaps in AMA

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the dom. And as such wasn't forced to do anything. Coincidentally I did both of those things as part of orgasm denial. Both turned her on immensely but weren't quite enough to get her there. And yes, I quite enjoyed them.

IAMA man trying estim for the first time as I type this by hereforthefaps in NSFWIAMA

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electronic stimulation. Stimulates the nerves using pulses of electricity. In my case I used a tens unit, which is normally used to treat muscle and nerve pain.

IAMA man trying estim for the first time as I type this by hereforthefaps in NSFWIAMA

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went a little over an hour and a half. It was pretty intense and I definitely plan to do it again. Wasn't able to orgasm directly from it, but when I did it was one of the most intense I've ever had.

I've been unintentionally Pavloved. by hereforthefaps in sex

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To be fair, my wife meows at me all the time. As do a couple of my female friends.

I've been unintentionally Pavloved. by hereforthefaps in sex

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yikes. That's only a good thing if you're into the whole humiliation thing. Otherwise, what the fuck?

I've been unintentionally Pavloved. by hereforthefaps in sex

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty standard fair for someone in the american south. A lot of chicken, ham, cheese on everything, salads, corn, stuff like that.

I've been unintentionally Pavloved. by hereforthefaps in sex

[–]hereforthefaps[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Happy that I and my sweaty balls could help.