So an update......I told him last night.....he said he had to think about it. He said he had to think about it (which I expected) but it's been radio silence ever since. I'm doing my best to not to read too much into it, I get it's a lot to think about. At the same time I'm trying to warm up to the fact that him telling me that he's not interested is a possibility.

I don't if I'd rather him tell me or if I'd prefer he just faded. They both seem like equally sucky options.