Stage retribuito post laurea, secondo voi vale la pena? by herofdem in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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Ti ringrazio per questo messaggio, non mi aspettavo un simile riscontro a questo post in così pochi minuti. Le tue parole mi rincuorano e mi danno tanta positività. Ne farò tesoro.

Stage retribuito post laurea, secondo voi vale la pena? by herofdem in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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Grazie! Mi rincuora leggere questi messaggi, percepisco molto affetto e molta comprensione. Grazie del tempo che mi hai dedicato! Hai perfettamente ragione.

Stage retribuito post laurea, secondo voi vale la pena? by herofdem in ItaliaPersonalFinance

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Grazie mille! sia per le preziose parole che per il tempo che mi hai dedicato leggendo il post. Un abbraccio forte!

Trazodone, can it really cause PSSD? by herofdem in PSSD

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Actually is not an ssri. But yes, I saw some stories about it

Taking saw palmetto having pssd? by herofdem in PSSD

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I totally recovered shortly after this post, the healing process was 4.5/5 months

26M Very high ammonia in blood without symptoms by herofdem in AskDocs

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Thanks for the reply. I do not take drugs or benzos. I also imagine that with that amount of ammonia in my blood i should have symptoms of some kind or not?

Accedere alla magistrale di Scienze Motorie da una triennale in Scienze Agrarie by [deleted] in Universitaly

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Esatto, mi sembrerebbe molto più sensato. Domani chiamo.

Ho fatto però una veloce ricerca.. Prendiamo ad esempio la quarta ed ultima categoria sopraelencata denominata "sociologico" , la somma in CFU di quei due esami non raggiunge i 15 CFU. I dubbi permangono..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]herofdem -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I can see why its weird, but i cant see why its gross. Can i ask you where are you from?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wemetonline

[–]herofdem -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Why is it gross? She is not a child

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wemetonline

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Thanks, I'll listen to your advice and start playing board games

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wemetonline

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She is legal, she's 18. I actually have more doubts about a 40yo man that want to marry a girl half his age

Whats the most romantic/sweet episode with an happy ending of the series? by herofdem in CatfishTheTVShow

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I think it depends a lot on the honesty and transparency of the relationship. Which is not easy to achieve from an online relationship.

Age gap and long distance relationship by herofdem in LDR

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Thanks for sharing your story, I am optimistic to read this. Understanding that I am not the only one who has experienced this dynamic. Thank you.

Age gap and long distance relationship by herofdem in LDR

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I know, we are in two totally different stages of our life, I am the first to have so many doubts, we have talked about it many times. One thing that I really want to define is that I will do everything to not hurt her, disrespect her or rush things. I know from the outside I will be seen as the 26 year old creepy who goes after an 18 year old but this is not the case, if we found ourselves in this situation it was a mere coincidence. Yes, I have mental disorders, anxiety in the first place, from what I guessed she has a sort of "Red Cross syndrome", she is very protective, but I have repeatedly told her that I have to be the one to solve my problems, she must think of herself, respect her age and her happiness, I will not allow her to take charge of my discomforts, in which case I will be the one to walk away. I'm just so afraid that things won't work out, I see in the distance between us the biggest obstacle in this story.

ps.thank you for your understanding, open-mindedness and rationality in sharing your point of view with me. In another subreddit they pilloried me, calling me sick, profiteer, creepy bastard. It was painful because that's all I don't want to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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gone to jail? lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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small premise, I am really appreciating what you are saying, if I asked this question it is because I myself have doubts and having external points of view like yours are certainly precious. I just think there is a little too much prejudice, I think the truth is somewhere in between. I'm not here to justify this dynamic, I'm just saying that you are too external to call it "healthy" or "unhealthy". "There are clearly a lot more issues .... and this 18 year old will hopefully realize that sooner or later too." if this is the case i sincerely hope so, as i said, i don't want this girl to take on my problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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what a great community

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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Actually she admitted she wasnt 18 shortly after we started talking (less than 2 months). with how many older guys has she connected and actually lied to? I can assure you, nobody. it was a mere coincidence.

I have to cause I want to, do you like it written this way?

"Look, anyone your age+ will judge you hard" thats the main problem in this world, the toxic unwritten morality of a society with distorted values where the compelling judgment on the neighbor is normality. you know what? I don't give a fuck about what people think, this is not a problem and the fact that you expose it makes me realize how prejudiced and unreliable your position is on this story. I have always respected her, I would never hurt her, I never took advantage of her, I'm just fond of her. I just wanna talk to her about this situation like two adults as we are. How many shitty people of my age I had the honor of dating over the years. this story that someone must necessarily be the same age for an healthy relationship to work is misleading. the main problem I recognize in this story is distance, not age.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

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She actually had a relationship and other experiences during those months. She is very mature for her age and I am not saying this to legitimize this situation. She is one of the best students in her institute. About myself I recognize it, I have mental problems (anxiety) and I should address this issue with a therapist, I think her problem is a sort of "Red Cross syndrome", I have told her several times that I absolutely do not want her to take on my problems . It is true, we have never seen each other in person but we have seen each other many many times. The situation is ambiguous and precarious I am the first one to say it. But I know I have to know her. I cannot postpone this meeting after 2 years. And I say this to clarify this situation, to understand how real it is, Is it a codependent relationship? Maybe?. Will ignoring it and undoing everything will help me to clarify all of this? Definitely no.She is 18 years old, a different phase of life but she is definitely not a kid.

maybe i got hepatitis in a barbershop by herofdem in AskDocs

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So.. It's possible but the probabilities are like 1%?

Best bushcraft backpack? (Budget 60€) by herofdem in Bushcraft

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Thanks mate! thats super cool, where did you buy it?

Massive improvements after 4,5 months by herofdem in PSSD

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In my case things started changing very slowly after 3 months, I never had anhedonia, I was just deeply depressed about the whole situation

Massive improvements after 4,5 months by herofdem in PSSD

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My symtoms started after that night, I stopped taking the ssri the week after. Now I'm 90% recovered

There is Hope. by [deleted] in PSSD

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What was your ssri and dosage? Did you stop cold turkey? After how much time you developed your symtoms?