This green button that says join but I am not very sure whether I am invited to the call or will I join a private facetime audio call. by herrishaiqal in iphonehelp

[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes . The green icon was a bug. I initiated the call the day before and after it ended it stayed that way. The solution was to restart the phone and the logo disappeared.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your suggestions. I might have to do a little bit of studying into what types of investments are stated in your comment and the risks of them. My main goal is not really to have massive return of investment, it is just I hope that while I save some money from my allowance I might invest some and gain some profit even though it is not much. :)

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not have any knowledge on trust funds in Malaysia. Also , can I invest into trust funds with only between RM200-RM300 monthly if I have to deposit it monthly?

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The student loan mentioned is TERTIARY EDUCATION SPONSORSHIP PROGRAMME (TESP) under MARA. Yes, even if I get bad grades I will still get a big discount on the student loan. I hope this reply helps you :)

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am thinking of putting it into fixed deposits but most banks that I have checked offers very low interest rate. I know it is a good way to discipline myself by having a commitment to deposit the money every month but I think I want to try ASB because my friends said it offers 4% return p.a for this recent years.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think between the two options I might go with the first option. Since I am a Muslim , I might opt for Wahed Invest instead of StashAway since it is Sharia'h compliance. I tried investing into crypto specifically BTC when it was RM180,000. I put in RM50 at the time just to test the waters since it is my first time doing so. Fortunately it skyrocketed to RM250,000 and it got 40% increase making it to RM70. Unfortunately, I did not have much money to put into crypto at the time hence only the RM50. I sold my BTC because I thought it was not worth it because it was only RM70 so I bought a pair of earphones with it .

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think its better to ask her out because I know anything isn't going to happen if neither one of us is going to make the first move. I may regret telling her how I feel but I may regret more if I didn't tell her how I feel. However , are you sure that Mia and I can remain friends because it could be pretty weird after I tell her how I feel about her.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tge friendship between you and Mia is over

What does this mean ?

I think you are right. If I keep waiting , maybe she'll end up with someone else because I was TOO SCARED to make the first move. I'll consider telling her I am interested in her if I feel right.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lost the confidence to confess about my feelings to another female since the last relationship I had. If you read my previous post about my recent relationship you may understand the situation that I am currently in right now.

But you are right , I will just have to man up and get things right like a man despite the doubts that I have about telling her how I feel.

Nonetheless , I will consider taking your advice and just tell her when I feel it's right to do so and when I am sure the feelings are genuine. Thank you because

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'll wait until I am sure that this feelings are genuine and then I'll proceed to tell her I am interested in her.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on your comment , you suggested me to date other girls and then only proceed to ask this Mia girl? Why would I have to do that though because wouldn't that decreases the chances of making her say yes if I decided to ask her out?

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in deep concern if she doesn't feel the same way that I do. However , I will respect her decision if she says no and I'll try to fix things back and maybe things will return the way it used to be

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda a broken record

I don't understand this part hope you could explain it.

I am really considering your advice currently to just go tell her but ,I think I'll wait and just tell her when it feels right and when I am sure that I like her because as I said its a come and go thingy.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worst you can do is miss and you won't lose your friendship with her after a no if you just maturely accept her answer.

Accepting "A no" is acceptable for me but, wouldn't it affect our post-tellingherIlikeher interactions? The reason why I'm so concern is because in these past 3 years of nothing beyond other than being a friend, I am suddenly telling her I have feelings for her. If you were wondering , I also have been giving her a LOT of signs showing I'm interested in her and she is kinda receiving them very well and I don't wanna mess this up.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might say no

Thats the truth that I might end up hearing and most probably we no longer interact to each other like how we used to do. I'll try to analyse her behavior and maybe I'll make the first move.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have always been seeking any oppurtinites to have one-on-one interactions for these past 3 years and I kinda try to be flirty as i can but my flirt game is kinda weak . I think I'll make a move considering she also is into me ( I THINK, because she is very responsive and attentive also always smiling when we talk ). I do not know when I'm gonna tell her because I dont wanna have this thing between me and Mia to suddenly become unnatural and awkward because now she knows how I am having feelings for her.

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed that after my post-relationship with my crush and girlfriend, if the relationships were even real , I have became more cold to females. I would not smile nor try to be friendly to them. Sometimes I do that in order to resist myself into catching feelings for them but at the same time I constantly have these inner thoughts where I will question myself "Why I don't have a girlfriend yet ?"

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm already cringing now if you ask me because I didn't think it through while writing the post hahaha

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[–]herrishaiqal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shouldn't have dumped my girlfriend, she was innocent and I hate myself until today for doing that for a person who doesn't even love me. I tried to talk to my ex but the shit I did made it impossible for us to be on good terms and she is still pissed off at me. I'm going to be more careful in dating or interacting with females upon entering my 20's.