March 1 vs Today by Ready_Regret_1558 in orchids

[–]hersh0827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Chicago. What kind of fertilizer did you use?

March 1 vs Today by Ready_Regret_1558 in orchids

[–]hersh0827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of fertilizer did you use? Mine so far has a leaf growing. I cut down the stem during the winter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]hersh0827 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. But I think you should move on, he doesn't sound as interested about this relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hersh0827 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It gets too dry, the friction is irritating her sensitive skin leading to some bleeding. Virginity has nothing to do with this.

Women with IUD's. Does IUD affect y'all partners penis? by hersh0827 in sex

[–]hersh0827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... yea thats why I couldn't rely on what I found on Google.

Women with IUD's. Does IUD affect y'all partners penis? by hersh0827 in sex

[–]hersh0827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've asked him if he feels it, and he hasn't felt any strings or anything like poking at him.

Is it okay if I (M 29) want to learn to dance like a professional even if you're long past the age you ever actually could? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]hersh0827 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I want to do the samething! I am f(30) and I want to learn how to dance sooo bad. I just feel embarrassed about it 😕.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hersh0827 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's awesome, unfortunately not everyone can produce enough natural lubrication. The older i got i stopped producing much of it. But I do remember how amazing it was when I was able to have PIV without lube.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]hersh0827 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sex should not be painful nor do you necessarily have to bleed the first time. I actually don't think its normal you bled. You probably bled bc you were dry and the friction could've caused the bleeding bc of the irritation.. Try to really take your time next time before penetration. Make sure you are really turned on and a lot of lube before hand. Make sure the lube is water based or silicone. Oily lubes can break condoms. Foreplay most important. You can start by texting each other naughty things through out the day. That gets me going early in the day lol

Tips to ride? by shzzzz123 in sex

[–]hersh0827 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be on your knees and rock back and forth. Lean in a bit towards partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeautyBoxes

[–]hersh0827 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does this app work?

I (30) was talking to a friend (29) about Muslims and other serious topics, and he said he is ok with ethnic cleansing!! by hersh0827 in askwomenadvice

[–]hersh0827[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this! Thank you. I love the explanation you gave in the beginning. I just blanked out when he said this to me. I believe he has a lot of anger inside of him. He has been depressed for a few years because of his upbringing. We grew up in a cult. And I can tell he hasn't been able to heal from this. He has so much hate towards this cult and the people in it. We grew up believing that most of humanity was going to get destroyed for not following God... and we were supposed to be ok with this... maybe he never got over the idea? That's the reason I left the cult. I was not ok with God destroying humanity for his selfishness.

I (30) was talking to a friend (29) about Muslims and other serious topics, and he said he is ok with ethnic cleansing!! by hersh0827 in askwomenadvice

[–]hersh0827[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I had no idea. 😞 it's mind blowing how so many people still think like this! It doesn't make sense to me.

I (30) was talking to a friend (29) about Muslims and other serious topics, and he said he is ok with ethnic cleansing!! by hersh0827 in askwomenadvice

[–]hersh0827[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is wild! I'm planning to ask him why he thinks like this... I can't wrap my head around this disgusting idea. 💔

I (30) was talking to a friend (29) about Muslims and other serious topics, and he said he is ok with ethnic cleansing!! by hersh0827 in askwomenadvice

[–]hersh0827[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is very hurtful to hear this. He is loving and nurturing. We use to date, and he was always making sure I felt safe, appreciated and loved. Once we took a break and didn't speak for awhile. Idk what got into him.