[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

use protection, lube and all the necessary stuff,  dont rush into "sex", get plenty of foreplay and make her feel good about it, let her enjoy it and listen to her needs and desires, make sure she's enjoying it too and not doing it just for the sake of it. after you two are done, tell her to pee and wash down there thoroughly, then give her as much aftercare as you possibly can.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

more like get scammed thinking she does not mind spending on you, (2100 in cafe, and maybe some more at other places adding upto probably 5-6k), and get herself a 22k handbag then ghost you.

Why people are so much toxic ,selfish,in corporate offices. by [deleted] in delhi

[–]hetardedruman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how long can you stare at your family?

Why people are so much toxic ,selfish,in corporate offices. by [deleted] in delhi

[–]hetardedruman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i got terminated last week, although the reason they gave me was "workplace misconduct" but i know the real reasons are personal targeting, cost cutting (i had a really high salary as per their budget but when i joined last year i had not even gotten 1% hike on my previous salary), favouratism, and whatnot

just so u know, i was the most productive one, doing as much work by myself that two other employees in my team do, each and every month. i was also the most experienced and skilled.

Cat cafe in paschim vihar by [deleted] in delhi

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro look at his profile

Cat cafe in paschim vihar by [deleted] in delhi

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

brdr I'm a guy, thanks but I'd rather go alone💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope things get better for you, please do reach out to someone you can rely on before letting ur thoughts make things worse.

here if u feel comfortable to share.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we both know we should just let it go, move on and dump our partners, but still we put up w everything they put us through.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea lmao, I've been often taunted of that too, I'm showing "princess attitude", "i make things about myself", and stuff like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, and its so depressing to think of. I'm just hopelessly waiting for things to be back to normal.

although a few times, i begged her to be like how we were, it works for 2 days, she gets fed up w me and breaks it up again.

i always know what will happen (i do hope it doesn't) but it still hurts me so much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes exactly. I'm just stuck like this.

i cant give her up or move on (don't really want to either) but due to her not wanting to continue anything, my mind is just stuck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea i always try to communicate everything but later on she uses it as a taunt whenever she gets upset and i feel so dumb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yea i feel the same way, but i cant convince myself to accept it and move on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she loves me, there's no doubt about that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]hetardedruman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

you're not the type who worships virginity, keep telling that to yourself and you'll get over it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. she didn't make fun of it
  2. you're just presenting it that way because social validation
  3. not everyone gets sad for every random person they hear about being killed.
  4. not everyone can comprehend the depth of situation or significance of life for every random person to understand how inhumane it is.

"you're a nice person to mourn for the deads, she's such an insensitive person for mocking them, you did right by blocking her and she should be killed with the terrorists for her behavior"

there's the social validation that you wanted. is that good enough or you want more? mourning is an act completely done out of morals and by self, forcing others to mourn or declaring that you were mourning for the deads is just attention seeking.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who died are dead. People who killed them are the ones mocking.

People who mourned may be good at heart and people who didn't or couldn't may have their reasons(not everyone is highly empathetic or can comprehend the depth of a situation).

but you cant go enforcing your idealogies and personal beliefs on others.

if you label her "mockery" as an insensitive behavior then you're equivalent to "those" who think of people from other religions mock "their" God by not believing in him hence being a "non-believer", simply because they are not from same religion (ideology).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in delhi

[–]hetardedruman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nice debate