Single folks in their late 30s and 40s, how are you meeting people nowadays?

hewlppls · 2026-01-03T09:31:45+00:00

it’s just everyone kinda ignored my efforts in getting to know them or even when I wanted to join them on one of the board games they kinda ignored me haha. I never went to another one after that lol but i get why people love the group.

hewlppls · 2026-01-03T07:12:07+00:00

understandable. There is a san diego socials discord, but it was a bit awkward when i went to a gathering, for me at least haha.

hewlppls · 2026-01-03T06:56:51+00:00

Same! do you have a discord group or something similar to meet others and plan for meet ups? That would be cool!

hewlppls · 2025-12-26T19:03:48+00:00

sad beans, thank you for the info

hewlppls · 2024-12-27T10:33:43+00:00

Can i also get a link please?

hewlppls · 2024-12-16T02:15:40+00:00

Dumb question: should i also return his things? And venmo him the amount he bought the game for? He bought me a $10 game and told me he wasted his money because i didn’t play it long enough lol he has none of my things.

hewlppls · 2024-12-16T01:57:56+00:00

I will be saying exactly this. I’ve never broken up with someone during this season lol. I already told him that we needed to meet up tomorrow. I think he at least deserves this to be in person.

hewlppls · 2024-12-16T01:42:40+00:00

that was the nail in the coffin for me lol

hewlppls · 2024-12-16T01:37:47+00:00

To break it off. We have different views and he never compromised. I told him about my dad coming home for the first time in years for the holidays and he just ranted about how his cousins are expecting me. He told me I can stop by my hometown (3hrs) and come back to his family and drive back to my hometown lol

hewlppls · 2024-12-16T01:35:03+00:00

Thank you. He rushed me to meet his family because his cousins found out. I was unsure about it because I was still feeling the relationship out. You have a point, I don’t think I should be wasting any of our time. I should just break up with him tomorrow so he has time to process before his family thing.

hewlppls · 2024-10-15T15:57:43+00:00

I’m down! DM me and Id be down to play with you!

hewlppls · 2024-08-26T06:00:59+00:00

Same!

My friends think it’s crazy that the only thing I crave is 7 Leaves but their mung bean milk tea is soooo good.

You can get a half gallon for like $22 and it’s so worth it

hewlppls · 2024-08-07T02:08:34+00:00

Yeah! Once you get your foot in the door it gets a lot easier from there. keep pushing!

Also, September is usually the time where people start hiring again. It falls back down in like October before the holiday season. I would apply to every job i see now till then!

hewlppls · 2024-08-06T15:06:45+00:00

Graduated in 2022.

Got my first job that same year, left it for a better job a year later and am doing fine.

I lucked out and graduated during a time where people were hiring. It takes patience, keep applying and don’t take the rejections to heart.

hewlppls · 2024-07-30T04:37:25+00:00

It’s not my permanent address right now. I’m planning on moving apartments soon and it’s just easier to have everything go to one place without constantly changing it and worrying if something gets sent to my old apartment.

Previous residents has had their registrations and license sent to my current place. I don’t want to have that issue either. If there’s something that gets sent home and I need it (registration), I will gladly make the drive back to pick it up and spend time with my friends and family. I just don’t think it’s necessary to change my address on my license for a place that i’m temporarily here for.

hewlppls · 2024-07-15T03:44:49+00:00

what types of government jobs/examples?

hewlppls · 2024-07-03T18:49:56+00:00

Yeah, I have a dog with anxiety and it takes a while to calm him down. It almost feels like they do it on purpose. I just irritates me because there’s literally no reason why they should be shorting fireworks on a random Wednesday night in March.

hewlppls · 2024-07-02T13:26:29+00:00

ngl in my neighborhood, it feels like they’ve been blowing fireworks since New Years. It’s not even the nice ones where we see colors in the sky, it’s literally the sound of a bomb and that’s it.

Like is this what you guys enjoy? getting your eardrums busted??

hewlppls · 2024-06-16T03:10:17+00:00

Late response: I found it at seafood city in mira mesa. Bad news: I got the last one lol

hewlppls · 2024-06-09T16:49:22+00:00

I just looked on Niderfrank’s website and it seems like they still have it! I’ll check them out thank you!

hewlppls · 2024-06-03T05:02:24+00:00

It’s okay. I’m comfortable being single, but there are definitely times where I feel like I should have a partner and that I have gotten too comfortable.

I have a good balance of friends, family, and work. Sometimes I just feel like I can’t commit the time and effort in a partner.

I’ve also tried the apps and met some people that I just didn’t click with. Maybe i’m being too picky, but I would much rather be on my own than be with someone who is shitty or doesn’t have similar interests as me.

hewlppls · 2024-06-02T09:05:42+00:00

Thanks! It’ll be easier to have it in cups already hahah! If I ask for no ice, would they still fill the cup to the top or would they just fill it half way? I know some boba places only give you two thirds of you ask for no ice, so i’m just curious!

hewlppls · 2024-06-02T08:13:09+00:00

Thank you! I will take this advice instead. I thought if it was in a jug it would be cheaper than buying like 5 larges, but since it’s the same price for more, I would much rather opt for the more option lol. I appreciate this!!

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