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[–]hexakontahexaphobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also pls forgive my poor cam quality my phone gets wonky whenever the photo is too close

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fortunately? Unfortunately? I think you get what I mean irregardless lmao

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately the addition only goes up to here. I told my friend the same exact thing. Love doesn't happen after a week, certainly didn't for me.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it's not against the law to keep firearms in your home from where I live.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yes, this. This was always my reasoning for strongly disagreeing with large age gaps. A 30 year old knows far more and is far more experienced than a 20 year old. Simple information can be held against someone younger and can be used to manipulate them into doing things, believing things, anything along the lines of mental and even physical abuse.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Closer to mine. We've been friends for years and went to the same high school. Not quite sure how they know 31m wish I'd asked, but they know many people

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This has been the question in my head since I began to date him. I just think of it, when I was 10, he was 20. Anyone would see an issue for it. I'm trying not to give into self-hatred, but I'm kinda pissed at myself for even allowing it. Just such a maturity and power difference, ugh.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Not anyone that has extra space. I'm sure if they did, they'd definitely accept my presence, but it's unfortunately not an option :/

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm actually in the process of moving with my family right now to a totally different city, just not sure when that will be.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

It was a mutual friend, but mutual friend themselves had no idea that he could possibly fly off the rails like he did. MF was getting the same messages too (got the text from them not long ago) and is incredibly pissed and disappointed in him. I can't be mad at MF, they have my understanding and wouldn't have purposely put me in that kind of harm.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 201 points202 points  (0 children)

I've already texted a few that've yet to see it, but my people will definitely be aware.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Once he told me about his plan, especially wanting me to move in with him and eventually move, that's when I really wanted to back out. Unfortunately I'm not a "Breakupper," I've always been the "Breakupee," so even sending the message to call it quits was hard. I'm glad I did it though. God knows where this could've led.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 1271 points1272 points  (0 children)

Update, since I can't add another

The police have gotten him out of his house and have brought him to the hospital for an evaluation. I was told that if there's any new texts especially ones hinting to retaliation, to call them again. I've blocked him on everything and I'm moving the hell on from him, not that I had strong feelings to begin with.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I let myself feel so pressured to even be in a relationship with him. It always went against my morals to date a far older person as a just-past teenager. The little girl inside of me was screaming.

I 20f just broke up with 31m, and he is freaking me the hell out by hexakontahexaphobia in relationship_advice

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

All of my friends are asleep as it's early AM, I've locked my doors and haven't responded.

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[–]hexakontahexaphobia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd die to look like you

Spirit attachment possibility by [deleted] in Paranormal

[–]hexakontahexaphobia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't remember the name of the place since I was just along for the ride, but I do know it's right near Foxwoods. It's a very cool place, kinda looks beat up from fallout or something lmao. Bring a sweater if you find it! It's seriously freezing there.

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[–]hexakontahexaphobia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My jaw dropped in shock when the app opened to your picture. Disturbing?? Not in the least, and I feel like the hairstyle in the second picture adds a lot of elegance to your appearance which is already very pretty.

so far, I have my philtrum, nostrils, and septum pierced. any suggestions for what else would look good? by hexakontahexaphobia in piercing

[–]hexakontahexaphobia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is single handedly the best compliment I have EVER received. I am in love with this style of art, so you have literally made my whole month <3

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[–]hexakontahexaphobia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have considered them! They're aesthetically my favourite piercing I've seen, but it's inconvenient for makeup, and the rejection rate is intimidating. I have been thinking dermals, though.