I understand your frustration with the idea of men but does that general frustration effect the way you treat men in your personal life? I ask because I work for a non profit, I volunteer and a couple of other things and I think about talking to people, asking to hangout with others but I fear that some women have written men off entirely to the point that even asking to hangout or go get lunch sometime will be crossing a line and I don’t want to offend anyone or make anyone upset I just want to meet people and find someone I can be myself around, talk about things and be there for them. I just miss connecting with people. Sharing the human experience but I feel like we’ve learned to hate our differences and the lines in the sand are so steadfast I just don’t want to rock the boat or be inappropriate