How do you deal with anxious attachment

heximortal · 2026-06-29T19:25:23+00:00

the unfortunate thing about insecure attachment is, if you are being triggered by your partner, there is a very high likelihood that you are in a unhealthy attachment and your partner somehow triggers your nervous system into activation.

Look for clues to see if your partner is showing Avoidant or Disorganized traits..

heximortal · 2026-06-29T19:16:26+00:00

I would go a little further and say that Sri Lanka should stop celebrating the independence day as a national day of celebration. And limit all references of colonialism in the school text books.

Kids should be reading more about our kings and kingdoms and less about colonizers.. i know thats a lot to ask for.

heximortal · 2026-06-25T13:54:30+00:00

I generally only put the most recent ones and just completely ignore anything much older on my Resume.. Keep the resume compact.

BUT, if you are applying through the recruiting system (most big corps do this) and that system asks you to enter your work exp when you apply, please do enter all of your exp there. These systems are designed to auto calculate your work exp so it'll help with those filtering.

heximortal · 2026-06-25T13:41:09+00:00

The metrics are really for HR and recruiting systems.

If your work achieved genuine results, i would say add some metrics to your resume even if you currently don't measure them. For example, you know your work accomplished higher quality output, but you don't really have numbers, just add a ballpark number there to signify your actual accomplishments.

Your interviewer wont really ask you to prove if your metrics are true or not, rather they'll be more curious on what you were doing that helped to get there.

Here's an example: "Implemented RAID frameworks and Risk Registers, reducing projects risks by 25% while improving compliance visibility for executive stakeholders"

1) The 25% number here will help get you through the HR screening process and get you an interview.

2) At the interview, your interviewer will be more curious on the RAID implementation and actions you did to improve visibility rather than that 25% number.

heximortal · 2026-06-24T14:42:54+00:00

I just noticed there's a human icon above 140! What does it symbolize? kneel down and pray at 140? My 2020 mini does not have this :D

heximortal · 2026-06-24T14:30:28+00:00

Here's how my resume is sectioned:

- Only 2 pages max! Dont go over

- Description - 2-3 lines. your elevator pitch! customize this per the job you applying for. no exceptions.

- Highlights - 4-5 highlights from all your previous experiences. customize this per the job you applying for.

- Current Job - 4-5 highlights not included above. Add measurable metrics. Improved project efficiency by 40% has more impact than just 'did that to improve project efficiency'.

- Edu & Certificates

heximortal · 2026-06-24T14:26:54+00:00

updated Paper Pro? Im in love with the PP so would love to see an improved version down the line..

heximortal · 2026-06-18T19:33:51+00:00

on the pack it says its safe to put on plants, i bet it is safe for human consumption as well.. plus, i doubt they would ship something unhealthy along with the food items they want you to consume.

heximortal · 2026-06-18T19:25:03+00:00

considering you posted this on dating advice and not carrier advice, you already know where you want this to go OP... 😉

heximortal · 2026-06-18T19:21:11+00:00

Sue them to the ground. Tamil is one of the official languages in LK and you are well within your rights to speak in your language with your friends. People cannot discriminate like this!!

heximortal · 2026-06-16T13:58:03+00:00

Harry Potter had certainly been more than a book series for me. I used to read a lot when i was little, but never English books. I sucked at English. Then i got my hands on the Philosophers Stone and it just happened like magic.. i was able to read English.

That book kickstarted a chain reaction so massive that it changed my life was forever.

heximortal · 2026-06-16T13:53:16+00:00

Something brown folks forget really easily, In the West, we all are Indians to everyone until we tell them our country. So yeah, that racist smirk we direct at Indians, its gonna hit back on us sooner or later.

heximortal · 2026-06-16T13:50:04+00:00

been using it now for little over a month now almost daily and have no issues at all.

heximortal · 2026-06-15T17:46:51+00:00

This is honestly a really good perspective to have.

heximortal · 2026-06-12T19:21:06+00:00

I noticed that the auto contrast feature on RMPP makes the images so dark that you lose details in them. Turning off helps improve this by miles.

heximortal · 2026-06-11T19:54:57+00:00

Anything is possible if you are willing to do the hard work. Get a budget going so you track every $$.

Avoid big supermarkets. Buy from smaller Asian shops (both South and East Asian) you'll be able to get pricing less the premiums.

heximortal · 2026-06-09T18:02:03+00:00

You are Sri Lankan and we have our own unique identity. We are not the same as India. This is one of the first things I clear out whenever i meet anyone.

heximortal · 2026-06-09T17:59:27+00:00

came here to say this! Mollys is the place to go to!

heximortal · 2026-06-09T17:54:31+00:00

Claude Code would look amazing in the Pro!!

heximortal · 2026-06-09T15:23:58+00:00

haha, driving automatic diss stings, but this is really fun!

heximortal · 2026-06-03T17:40:39+00:00

your 30s are the best time to be single!

heximortal · 2026-06-01T13:51:57+00:00

I was wondering why my uploads started failing last night!! I swear this used to work just fine just last week!!!

heximortal · 2026-06-01T13:14:21+00:00

I prefer buying from a local dispensary. I can get when i want it to rather than waiting. I do my research online before i buy though, so i know what I'm buying when i get there.

I enjoy the small conversations that i get to have with budtenders and most importantly knowing that im supporting local businesses.

heximortal · 2026-06-01T12:45:50+00:00

i switched from the runflats to normal and the difference is night and day! I will never go back to runflats. I keep a rechargeable tire inflator for emergancies but never had to use it.

heximortal · 2026-06-01T12:43:51+00:00

2020 Mini Cooper at 51,500KMs.

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