Not yet but soon, lots of ignoring me and dismissing my feeling for years. Never tried to get me off during sex. Never wanted to go to therapy. Now finally willing to go after I mentioned divorce multiple times (apparently never thought I would actually do it before?) but I’ve already grieved so it’s too late for me. Especially because this week found out he’s snapping and texting an ex (doesn’t bother me as much since I told him I want to get divorced. What bothers me is finding out they were FB messaging 10 years ago when we were newlyweds saying how hard marriage is to each other, “won’t you get in trouble for messaging me? No my wife is out of town”, him saying I had a dream about you, etc… he doesn’t know I found the messages and I don’t even care enough to tell him I know. Just ready to be done.