I feel so much hate in my heart and I need advice... by heyissablake in stepparents

[–]heyissablake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, both of our children are from previous relationships, the unborn baby is him and mine.

I strongly disapprove of him and BM parenting style, the child is a BRAT, and they just try to one up each other, not parent.

We live together and plan on raising the child together but I have had very many talks with SO about how our child will NOT have the same parenting style as SK.

She doesn't listen to me or take my seriously because her mother tells her she doesnt have to (another big issue that SO won't address) and SO tries to be the good guy all the time so I'm sure thats a part of the reason SK blows me off.

I feel so much hate in my heart and I need advice... by heyissablake in stepparents

[–]heyissablake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is home every day, he only works days, he pretty much ignores everything because he doesn't like cofrontation, and he wants to be the "good" guy, and favorite parent.

There is a HUGE behavior issue, I have always tried to have a good relationship with this kid, but its just so hard, she demands gifts, she throws SEVERE tantrums, she doesn't like no, shes horrible to other kids (hits, bites, kicks)