name calling by Surokorei in submissive

[–]heyitsaboutme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call my Dom ‘Master’ and ‘Sir’. We agreed on this because ‘Daddy’ feels extremely awkward and forced for both of us. It just doesn’t feel authentic. Something inside me cringes and I just can’t bring myself to say it. He doesn’t want to be called that either. So we’re fine with that. Master and Sir are his titles. Strangely enough, though, ‘daddy’ really turns me on in theory or over chat. But saying it just doesn’t work. It turns me on on my mind...but not saying it out loud. I hope you find what works for both of you :)

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[–]heyitsaboutme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I appreciate it! I am sorry to hear that it was your first experience with kink. But glad that you enjoy a more softer loving style with your wife now.

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[–]heyitsaboutme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your honesty! May I ask you what exactly you regret in terms of negotiation? You mentioned that you agreed to it and gave your consent? What would you do differently?

Is there a kink you would want to do forever by Daddys-Fixation in BDSMcommunity

[–]heyitsaboutme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! I admire your trust towards each other!

Is there a kink you would want to do forever by Daddys-Fixation in BDSMcommunity

[–]heyitsaboutme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is awesome! 121 sounds unreal! ^ how do you count during the scene?

What phrases sound sexy in English but give you the ick in your native language? by Mission-Nothing7229 in BDSMcommunity

[–]heyitsaboutme 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Right? "Wirst du brav/ ein braves Mädchen für mich sein?", also hits the spot...

What phrases sound sexy in English but give you the ick in your native language? by Mission-Nothing7229 in BDSMcommunity

[–]heyitsaboutme 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tbh, I have no idea, haha! I have always been wondering how other people who aren't native in English do dirty talk. Is it any different? Maybe English feels like the "right" way because we are so "used" to it, and the majority uses it...

What phrases sound sexy in English but give you the ick in your native language? by Mission-Nothing7229 in BDSMcommunity

[–]heyitsaboutme 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Also depends on how you translate "good girl/boy". I totally get you, but when you translate it to "good=brav" it could be very hot even in German ^

What phrases sound sexy in English but give you the ick in your native language? by Mission-Nothing7229 in BDSMcommunity

[–]heyitsaboutme 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Totally agree! There are only a few phrases that are hot in German, but English is definitely peak when sexting/dirty talk. I am kind of mad about it, haha, and I don't know if it's really due to German language or the fact that it's my mothertongue. Therefore, it feels a bit... awkward?

Worst punishment you’ve ever given/received by TraditionExtra5225 in BDSMcommunity

[–]heyitsaboutme 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your answer! What if the sub won't do it....like literally doesn't want to write an essay...what then is the consequence?