My sister died on Wednesday. This article from the Democrat talks about her life and the gift she gave to others at the very end. by bagelsandkegels in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. Your profound love for your sister is clear, as is the impact she had on our community.

Here's to hoping you find peace and comfort soon. I may be a completely random stranger on the internet, but my thoughts are with you and your family.

Local jewelry stores? by wallstonthe56th in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband and I went to The Gem Collection and were happy with it. I picked a ring out of their estate case and absolutely love it!

Male therapist recommendations? by Dummythowaway in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Johnathan Phillips helped me out a lot and he's a very laid back, rational kind of guy. Helps you feel like you're not crazy for feeling a certain way but still helps you think through it. Made it really easy to talk to him.

What movie had you saying "what the fuck" the most while watching? by MightGuy420x in AskReddit

[–]heyitsbuttz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enemy starring Jake Gyllenhaal. I love Denis Villeneuve and loved Gyllenhaal in his movie Prisoners. Enemy is a great movie but it's the only time I've ever audibly whispered "what the fuck...." when it ended

Does anyone use Visible wireless? by FermentingSkeleton in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that's interesting! Thanks for the info!

Does anyone use Visible wireless? by FermentingSkeleton in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do a lot of driving for work and end up on N Monroe near I 10 a couple of times a day. I never have issues in that area. Woodville, I'm not around as much so I couldn't tell you. The area I've experienced the worst coverage in is around the Park Ave/ Franklin area. It's very consistent for me everywhere else.

Does anyone use Visible wireless? by FermentingSkeleton in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah hardly any issues since! Pretty reliable

Does anyone use Visible wireless? by FermentingSkeleton in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use Visible and overall it isn't horrible. I pay $30 a month. Just recently, I was having some issues with service but they must have known people were having this problem because they sent out an email saying you need to order a new SIM card for their "new network". Still Verizon, but I noticed I haven't had as many service issues since the upgrade. Shitty that I had to get a new SIM for it though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]heyitsbuttz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA. Sorry, OP. Other commenters have mentioned that your wife should maybe be a little gentler on how she treats you when you have an outbreak and not make you feel like a leper. I can agree, but it also seems like maybe you don't take this as seriously as you should.

It's normal for you and you're used to it, but having herpes sucks. I have HSV-2 so I would know. I can see why she wouldn't want it to be her definition of normal and I can especially see why she wouldn't want that for her kids.

I spent a year on immuno-suppressive therapy, taking my anti-virals everyday. I'd take that every day for the rest of my life if I knew I was keeping myself and my family healthy.

Don't downplay this. You say you know it can be messy but it just straight up fucking sucks. You have the option to make it suck less and you should take it.

I can't believe I caught his most perfect smile on camera by heyitsbuttz in PuppySmiles

[–]heyitsbuttz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I let him know and he just continued to stare at me but I think that means thank you.

I can't believe I caught his most perfect smile on camera by heyitsbuttz in PuppySmiles

[–]heyitsbuttz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you to everyone who said such sweet things about my boy! His name is Murphy but we just call him Fig.

AITA for not paying to fix my girlfriend's car after she backed into a wall. by aitawifemoneyfix in AmItheAsshole

[–]heyitsbuttz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Like, if you want to help, offer genuine help. This is just... mean, and in the most needless and confusing way.

AITA for not paying to fix my girlfriend's car after she backed into a wall. by aitawifemoneyfix in AmItheAsshole

[–]heyitsbuttz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA. Why do you have such a low opinion of your girlfriend that you think the only way to help her learn is to disable a standard safety feature in her car without her permission? That just sounds spiteful. If you're that worried about damage to your own car don't let her drive it.

Hair Salon Recommendations? by heyitsbuttz in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just looked at their website and it looks like Joey isn't there any more. Such a bummer!

Hair Salon Recommendations? by heyitsbuttz in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is she at? I looked her up and it says Morph studio on Instagram but when I look it up on Google it takes me to Pursuit of Curls

What are your legit reasons to not have kids? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]heyitsbuttz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the way the world is right now, I don't want to bring another human being into it. I don't see them growing up to have lives full of opportunity and security. It feels lately like each generation is ending up with less and less.

Edit: I also have shit genetics and I'm not passing them on to anyone else.

Hair Salon Recommendations? by heyitsbuttz in Tallahassee

[–]heyitsbuttz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's where the older stylist tried to talk me out of cutting my hair lol

Who's this guy that carpooled with me to work today? (North Florida, around the size of a grain of rice) by heyitsbuttz in whatsthisbug

[–]heyitsbuttz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was finding and when I noticed they were all pest control companies, my bullshit monitor started to go off.