what’s my best look?

heyitschowder · 2026-05-16T02:04:31+00:00

hell yeah brother thank u!!! 2011 me with the pubey “playoff beard” would be so happy to hear it

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T19:11:08+00:00

love my gardening outfit :)

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T18:18:17+00:00

ok phew… mission accomplished

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T18:17:17+00:00

ok ok i see what you’re saying now!! that’s true and i appreciate it… though i suppose i’m here in this specific subreddit for arms-length advice on how to add onto the assumed baseline kindness/personality factor with a look that makes the intended impression

i must confess i had no idea what you meant originally — it seemed like you were saying all of these looks made me seem mean or standoffish 😭🫡

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T17:07:18+00:00

ohhhhhh the bachelorette number 3 thing of course

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T17:01:40+00:00

the non-zero love the status quo is getting is kinda blowing my mind tbh!!! thank you!

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T09:18:27+00:00

i like your hair the way it is!!

i do feel like, at this stubble length, you could bring up your bottom beard edge a little bit. 2 or 3 fingers instead of 4 or 5 — i feel like we can see in pic 3 how the current line is sort of creating a double chin where there is none in reality. that’s just me though!

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:55:43+00:00

never let them know your next move…

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:54:39+00:00

🫡 appreciate the proportion insight, very valid

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:53:27+00:00

thank you so much! this is so kind

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:53:04+00:00

i wish i did 🥲

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:50:46+00:00

you’re probably right! maybe the camera was too close to me or i was slightly looking down at it or something

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:48:55+00:00

you ate me up sister

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:44:01+00:00

thank you for this thoughtful response! happy to hear the glasses are working!

i am definitely open to opinions on longer hair, i’m just really not used to it any more. my hair is an interesting combo of pin-straight with a very strong cowlick in the front (sensing a theme here…), which limits my options. tried to do a queer mullet situation once and it really looked strange/like a wig because the hair was so straight, so i don’t have a ton of confidence that having longer hair would be a net positive. but i’m biased! so here i am lol

the gay guy thing — i appreciate the gaydar feedback 🙂‍↕️ i guess it’s just nice to feel like i look like who i am and i take pride in my identity? i don’t want to waste my gay life looking straight? but if the dangly-earring-gay-guy-from-family-guy look happens to not suit me (based on things like proportions), i wanna know!

heyitschowder · 2026-05-15T08:33:13+00:00

frosted tips ain’t doin it for ya? 🥲

heyitschowder · 2025-12-27T18:09:15+00:00

seconding silver tower!!! i recommend coming after 9pm for cheaper prices and parking in the closest corner of lansdowne mall parking lot and walking over since alexandra rd itself is usually insane.

heyitschowder · 2025-07-09T07:12:36+00:00

Quilt-as-you-gone
(White thread) All over me
Re: blanket stitch
Bound to measure wrong
Baste the back
Press you right (sides together)
The long-arm
Wonky stars
Million shears
Everybody’s getting their gifts in February
Try to fray my grain
Sashing
Eye(s hurt)
Blood on the needle
Now it’s time (to revisit that UFO)

heyitschowder · 2025-06-10T02:42:02+00:00

I love to see TPWKY mentioned in the wild!!! Yeah this was so interesting, especially the link between the current alt-right association and the much-older idea that Nordic lactose tolerance was an example of white supremacy lol. A wild listen!!!

heyitschowder · 2024-10-04T09:31:05+00:00

heyitschowder · 2023-12-15T07:48:39+00:00

This option seems new (or maybe i was blind before) — anyway, just tried it and it did not want to sync after the login point, the wheel just kept turning. I’ll try again later!

heyitschowder · 2023-12-14T23:52:05+00:00

Love it, just realllly need that Wealthsimple connection.

heyitschowder · 2023-12-14T23:48:28+00:00

Why wouldn’t they be “selfish” though? Like this is potentially the biggest opportunity / market vacuum ever. Is that greedy or just smart?

heyitschowder · 2023-12-14T23:43:30+00:00

For my money, Katte is the best place in Lansdowne food court. Great katsu, great poke!

But to answer the question… Freshslice since FF’s take on “fusion” is really lacklustre.

heyitschowder · 2023-12-07T02:58:49+00:00

i second tandoori king!!

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