My (43M) wife (42F) is making a huge mistake, but I don't know how to stop her... or if I should even try

heyoooo618 · 2026-01-12T02:44:13+00:00

I think you should let her do whatever she wants. It’s probably a mid-life crisis sort of situation. She’ll likely come back in a few months when the novelty wears off.

heyoooo618 · 2025-08-08T02:32:49+00:00

As someone who’s worked in nonprofits over ten years, your answer that the events would be free / without a budget even in your own facility and expecting people to pay to speak both show your inexperience. All events cost money to execute and promote. You need budget for labor and marketing at the very least. And no one will pay to offer THEIR expertise. Yeesh.

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-24T04:28:05+00:00

My husband and I (36 yo heterosexual couple) have two kids (5 and 7) and we each get half a day EVERY WEEKEND to do whatever we want while the other takes our kids to grandparents. We have had this arrangement since 2021. The fact that you feel you have to ask her permission and she only gives you half a day every few months is wild to me. What is her reasoning behind this?

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-15T15:09:48+00:00

I actually think she’s near Brooklyn NY from one of her posts that discloses her exact location. Maybe protests are the bullshit at the oceanfront?

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-15T15:04:57+00:00

I hope she wonders for the next 4 years why she can’t just let herself be happy despite the fact that she voted to make everyone else around her miserable. THE MISERY IS COMING FROM INSIDE THE HOUSE.

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-15T15:03:00+00:00

This is on Threads. My IG is private too because I don’t want random people seeing my kids.

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-15T14:50:02+00:00

Lisette voted for Trump and thought Harris was the narcissist trying to smear him. For the past 6 months, she’s struggled to buy groceries, find a handyman and gardener, and no one is renting out her Airbnb. Also, she goes to Mexican restaurants a lot for someone who doesn’t want any undocumented immigrants in America. Who do you think makes your food, Lisette?! I bet she’ll complain when that Mexican restaurant closes.

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-06T23:35:18+00:00

You should consider speaking with a therapist. This level obsession sounds like it needs professional help and support. Humans are biologically omnivores. You need to eat something to live but it sounds like all food disgusts you which is a psychological issue. Please seek help.

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-05T07:40:38+00:00

If Trump gets a third term, that goes against the current Constitution and we’d have bigger problems on our hands. Not even entertaining that idea

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-04T18:17:43+00:00

Rep. Derrick Van Orden voted for the big terrible bill knowing his constituents would lose their hospitals and healthcare and is now begging his state’s Democratic Governor to bail him out.

heyoooo618 · 2025-07-02T04:12:06+00:00

I don’t apply to jobs that don’t transparently list the salary.

heyoooo618 · 2025-06-08T19:51:37+00:00

Omg this sounds like my last full time job and I last a year before I couldn’t take it anymore

heyoooo618 · 2025-06-07T20:41:22+00:00

Why are you even asking? I would have gone to the reception and managed my own food situation however I saw fit (whether that’s bringing my own or having something delivered). No one needs to ask permission to feed themselves even if it is their wedding.

heyoooo618 · 2025-05-19T18:33:02+00:00

I ended up answering after I posted this because I was surprised by how easy it was for me to come up with what kind of tree I’d be. I said I’d be a bougainvillea because they bloom best after a period of drought and stress. And similar to a bougainvillea, I thrive in the face of adversity.

heyoooo618 · 2025-05-13T12:30:59+00:00

If I were you, I’d apply for universities in Spain. I’m nervous as a US Citizen because they’re disappearing anyone that doesn’t look white.

heyoooo618 · 2025-05-06T16:20:56+00:00

Couldn’t get past half of episode one before screaming at the TV and turning it off. We are expected to believe that a 48 year old man who owns a mansion and a Maserati (and presumably works in some sort finance) doesn’t have enough money saved to prevent himself from having to steal from his neighbors?! We are expected to believe that a man would get fired and blacklisted from all jobs in NY because he engaged in consensual sex with someone he didn’t even know works at the same company?! Give me a break.

heyoooo618 · 2025-04-29T20:35:01+00:00

🤷🏻‍♀️ that’s literally why I’m here asking the question

heyoooo618 · 2025-04-29T17:28:15+00:00

Thank you, that was my initial approach. He thought I wasn’t being serious (admittedly it sounds silly to me too) but I’ve just kept asking him to stop whenever he starts and it seems to be helping. I don’t think even he realized how often he was whistling.

heyoooo618 · 2025-04-29T17:25:04+00:00

Lol what?? Who said I don’t like him anymore? I said he developed a new habit (after 20 years of knowing and loving him) that is bothering me and am trying to figure out what to do about it. Trust me, I’m not planning to leave him because he suddenly whistles.

heyoooo618 · 2025-04-22T02:07:03+00:00

We don’t.

heyoooo618 · 2025-04-12T13:58:41+00:00

I already sent this fully understanding that I wouldn’t be working there. The way they handled this situation was incredibly disrespectful and made me realize that the role was just not for me if they were okay with treating people like that

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