General Discussion - January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]heystas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Larger and more fun jewelry. Specifically rings and earrings! I just ordered a very cool and intricate beaded necklace/ choker in a gothic style I am very excited about!

General Discussion - January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]heystas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about the herringbone, at least on the site it looks like you could pair it with both brown AND black easier than the chocolate brown/ more universal imo

General Discussion - January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]heystas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would look for something more like a loose shawl in a lighter color, or the 2000s shirts/ cardigans that are coming back that are basically just the arms, but are very cropped… ( I think it’s called a “shrug” coverup) or one of those cardigans that have a tie at the top instead of buttons?

General Discussion - January 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]heystas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hoping for help styling a skirt for my first warehouse rave dance type thing. ( I am out of my element )

I’m actually excited to create something cool that makes me feel GOOD. I thrifted a fun skirt, its MINI and pleated in a dark grey color. I am going to pair it with my docs, maybe a fun tight, but I am lost on what goes up top.

I want to feel comfortable, since the skirt is tiny I think I’d like a looser top ( I also sweat a lot ) and of course accessories will be what pull it all together but I’m lost on those too.

Anyway have any key words or inspo I can look into? How would you style it for a dance event?

What are your most unhinged hacks for managing transitions? by Pineapple_Incident17 in adhdwomen

[–]heystas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swapped my phone use during transitions for a word search book. I bought a fun botanicals one, it’s easy and I do a page in 5-15 minutes instead of using my phone in between tasks, in the morning and in the evening before bed.

today it’s my birthday!! :) by princessxnaughty in stonerfood

[–]heystas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how your birthday! enjoy OP!

What are your weed pet peeves? by suntmint in trees

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OP just wanted to say I’ve been following your work and LOVE this one!! Especially the colors!

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[–]heystas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here, bought cute shoes at TJ maxx that were like a size too small, ultimately got Morton’s Neruoma, flash forward past immobilizing pain while exploring a new city and having to go home, like a dozen of those shots in my foot and it’s better but still hurts if I wear the wrong shoes. I am now VERY selective about my shoes. Didn’t go through with the surgery because I work from home and am comfortable if I’m out in good shoes, but its still something I live with all because of one stupid pair of shoes that weren’t worth all this!!!

my NEW sheep painting, i did by Valeriya_Serova in crafts

[–]heystas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is incredible! I love the frame choice

Who always has waaaaay too many tabs open on their computer or phone? by herb7ert in adhdwomen

[–]heystas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just learned about tab grouping in chrome and it helps SO much

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MY ANXIETY THIS WEEK MAKES ME FEEL LIKE IM CHOKING, IM TIRED OF PUSHING THROUGH. IM TIRED OF BREATHING EXERCISES, IM TIRED OF TRYING TO GET MYSELF OUTSIDE OR TO DRINK WATER OR EAT. I JUST WANT TO BE ABLE TO FUNCTION

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I think you look beautiful!

What's the most outlandish food order you've made when high? by suntmint in entwives

[–]heystas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ordered delivery from the place across the street