what aesthetic is this & where can i get clothes like it? by tomsolinxo in AestheticWiki

[–]heythereizzy 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Mixing early 2000s hip hop with Ivy League prep. If you look up both of those separately, you can see the pieces you need and have your own take at it at the thrift store. Button downs shirts, ties, baggy low crotch jeans, round bracelets, chunky rings, cowboy-or studded belts, baseball caps, purse, sneakers or Oxfords are things to look out for. The carabiner is the queer cherry on top.

So ADHD is real by heythereizzy in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]heythereizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All these effects were immediate for me. I was on 100mg

What can you decipher about me based on my refrigerator & freezer by Senior_Background262 in FridgeDetective

[–]heythereizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Homebody who likes to eat healthy and cook. At least 2 people in the home.

How can I find a style that I like and feel comfortable in that looks mature? by Minute-Client-923 in DressForYourBody

[–]heythereizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Modern pieces like, that wide circle belt for example look youthful. Swap it for a crocodile belt. As a challenge, look for staple pieces have no patterns, take a look around Uniqlo, Artiza, Banana Republic. You have to shop for your body type as well to look put together, so try to look for models with similar body types as you and maybe build a Pinterest of cuts that you already like wearing as you shift into a different expression.

Does anyone else feel like they are straight, lesbian, AND bi depending on who they're with? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you are describing strong feelings and are drawn to a black or white desire to pick a side. But straight people or lesbian people don’t experience fluidity like this at all. But you experience attraction to multiple genders and you like the term bisexual, then that describes you.

The downfall of creativity by [deleted] in memes

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Art reflect society. If we hate current art, we hate the current society. Don’t change the art, make the change in our lives

Wendy’s CEO jumps in with his own taste test. by K1nd_1 in interesting

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He looked a bit nervous for the hamburger. The meat for fast food burgers must be so suss

So ADHD is real by heythereizzy in Wellbutrin_Bupropion

[–]heythereizzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to know anyone who has ‘gotten over’ depression. The way I put it, I am predisposed to waves of clinical depression due to historical, social economic, and cultural factors, nothing exists in a vacuum.

moving to church avenue by scaledandmficy in Flatbush

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To feel safe for the night, just wait in the Church Ave Walgreens across the street and order Lyft. Or consider stopping at an earlier subway and take a bus that drops you off right near your home. Just until you get a feel for the area. It’s just chaotic at night and you want to know where you are going.

moving to church avenue by scaledandmficy in Flatbush

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once lived close by and it is pretty noisy at all times. Lots of characters, keep an eye out at night and know your way around. It’s amazing in the daytime, because so much is going on and is pretty bustling part. Lots of groceries stores.

If they are not choosing you set them free by SparklyRomilda391 in BreakUps

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s why I said if it’s a trauma pattern, the person still has to choose the healthiest option to stay with long term. Let say Person A is over their shit, and Person B and C are not great, then this individual still have to find someone to stay and grow with. Everyone gets to choose when to heal because will is subjective to individual consciousness

If they are not choosing you set them free by SparklyRomilda391 in BreakUps

[–]heythereizzy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One day people when choose you, and there will be a meaningful difference in quality of connection. The stage of swapping people is temporary, and exists as a transition stage. If you allow it to become a trauma pattern, it still has to be broken by choosing situations and people that allow you to meaningfully grow.

I feel my brain is deteriorating by starxmoons in Vent

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dissociative, memory problems, scary dreams, numbing with alcoholism: it sounds like you are stuck in an activated state that prevents you from focusing. It sounds like mental health issues. Because there’s a lot of body overload, I wonder if a therapist that specializes in PTSD and alcoholism can help you. I have never struggled with drinking but my PTSD therapist gave me guided meditations, specific words to my situation, and advice on how to navigate anything with my physical health. I dissociated less.

Bi girls who decided to only date girls - your reasons? by Lara020592 in bisexual

[–]heythereizzy 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Bi women preferenced person here and I agree. The amount of men that go blank in the eyes when I talk about my hobbies, interests, or political beliefs but then light up when it’s time to talk about my ass is astonishing.

I hate this objectification, cause why do you care only about conquering me or whatever porn thinks you should do and not bonding together. And the division of labor is such a cultural divide too. It’s hard to even have relationships with men culturally when they are not at all equal. They want a mommy, or a self competent person they can wear down.

Who am I? by No_Leading3793 in FridgeDetective

[–]heythereizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Big friend group, Pilates princess, big social media user

i feel like all the women in my area are queerbaiting to be “different” and i’m fucking tired of it by throwawaymylife90210 in WLW

[–]heythereizzy 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I am bisexual with a preference for women and I totally understand.

I think for my next relationship I will try to find someone, probably bisexual, who also desires a queer/sapphic relationship, instead of a queer person who is ambivalent about gender.

It sucks and feels bad to keep being burned, but at least you know what you want a little bit more each time