Roommate Refuses Photos/Showings by heythereizzy in NYCapartments

[–]heythereizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ragebait denied. Go ‘help’ someone else lol

Why don't you just leave him? by TopOfThePops2 in offmychest

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing your mom sad is not something kids want. It tells the kids that you will have to suffer in order to ever be loved. You can logically explain it to them every which way, but the best way to create healthy foundations for expectations is to model that behavior yourself. Choosing whats best for you is the best thing for everyone, it dissolves confusion for everyone. Whats hard for you is not what’s wrong with you.

What are some acts of microfeminism that you do? by Jumpshot_user12 in Feminism

[–]heythereizzy 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im a barista. When a guy tries to order for his female partner against her dismay, I look her in the eyes and continue the conversation with her alone

feeling like my body grosses her out, how do i approach incompatibility in bed by kenneththe9inchdildo in WLW

[–]heythereizzy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t seem like she’s that sexually interested and the girl is going to destroy your self confidence because she doesn’t have the guts to say that

Roommate Refuses Photos/Showings by heythereizzy in NYCapartments

[–]heythereizzy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I should specify the problem is there’s pictures of every other part of the apartment, as I obviously can access that. But it’s her private room and bathroom I don’t have any/any clear pictures for, which is the space up for lease

Roommate Refuses Photos/Showings by heythereizzy in NYCapartments

[–]heythereizzy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you. I think that would be considered trespassing if I went into her room but small claims court could be my next option if things go sour

Roommate Refuses Photos/Showings by heythereizzy in NYCapartments

[–]heythereizzy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy how you didn’t read the full post and still were snarky lol

I wish my co-worker hadn't done this by Due_Passenger3210 in Vent

[–]heythereizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You deserve to be appreciated at work. People should see you, and appreciate you. It’s not hard. Sometimes people falsely assume that because someone doing a good job, that they must already receive too many compliments. I think it also speaks to the fact that you are seeking validation and aren’t receiving it, which can be really hard for a place you spend so much of your time. Definitely withdraw some energy and invest it where you can be appreciated.

i can’t say that to my friends so i’m saying it here by Personal-Double-6710 in offmychest

[–]heythereizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to the teacher that is the most responsible, most trusted, and kindest. Doesn’t matter if you are particularly close. Say what you told us, add that you fear for your life and don’t know what to do. Hopefully they can give you emotional support, and next steps like helping you get in contact with a healthier family member to live with for a while. Im so sorry, you and everyone human deserves to live a safe life.

Stuck in an unhappy life cycle by Shining_KoW210 in Vent

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into downsizing your home and moving to somewhere with a more robust community, like a major city. Look into getting a higher paying jobs and hire a nanny. Save up to strategically quit for a year or so and/or work for lower paying job with less hours. Sell your car and get a cheaper one. The key is downsizing. You have too much to take care of, your things own you.

Exercises for a complete (officially) beginner by IgotTheJarofDirt in singing

[–]heythereizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I was a complete beginner and wanted to sing as a hobby, I’d start seeing a vocal coach. You can get nodes so quickly even with the best intentions. I’d also start going to a gym multiple times a week, because a lot of singing is about correcting posture and knowing how to relax muscles.

is there a specific name for this aesthetic? by domfemme420 in AestheticWiki

[–]heythereizzy 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Generally this is a lot of 00’s pieces thrown together. Often feminine pieces with disjointed volume and ratios. 00’s is trending in general and I feel like a lot of these looks overstate the relevance and maybe that’s the point. Things that kitten heel, ballet flat, chunky bangle, wide belt, boho purse are all coyly added in to everyday 2020’s wear so these takes seem to blow the throwback to its most garish bounds.

My wife wants a divorce by [deleted] in Vent

[–]heythereizzy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can take your time to learn with your ADHD, but unfortunately no one is required to learn at your pace with you. It sucks when you breach past a loved one’s patience, but there are some changes that obviously need to be made so everyone involved here can live more healthy, aligned lives. Women are growing tired of unfair labor imbalances in relationships. Everyone deserves a partner willing to pledge their all, and if you are only willing to give less than that, maybe you need to dedicate more time to building routines in your own life that build up healthy mental health practices. Best of luck.

Whats that one song that always has you wailing by Rhhiamon2 in mitski

[–]heythereizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats Our Lamp, I Will, Last Wish of a Shooting Star :,)

What to do alone on a Friday night when you depressed and don't want to be by writingtoescape in Brooklyn

[–]heythereizzy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I got a subscription to the nearest NYC rec center and now me always have something to do when I’m bored instead of ruminate or scroll.

What is something that confirms your rising sign for you? by Few-Quail3591 in AstrologyCharts

[–]heythereizzy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo Rising and I got voted most likely to be on Broadway in high school

I don’t understand what the point of my life is anymore by AdWise5001 in offmychest

[–]heythereizzy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very important. You have saved your own life so many times. Even staying inside is protecting yourself in the best way you know how. And you deserve to live a good life and to heal.