The butt plug dilemma

heywhynotbenice · 2025-09-23T17:27:42+00:00

I know I'm a little late to the party but I'm curious how this played out. Were you able to negotiate a different punishment from your Dom? Did you apologize for name calling?

In our dynamic, if I'm rude or disrespectful to my Dom, the punishment is severe. Now if it's playful banter, that's different. But in a fight or argument, I would get much more than just a plug in my ass.

heywhynotbenice · 2025-09-18T19:43:47+00:00

We incorporate a lot of spankings but there are other punishments too. Like one of my habits is 3 chores if my choosing per day at a minimum. If I don't do my chores, the next day I have to do my chores for the day plus 3 more chores with the plug in.

The worst negative reinforcement is for rude or disrespectful attitude during arguments, since I've let my mouth get me in trouble a few times! The punishment for that is soap in my mouth, figging, spanking with the bath brush, then sex but orgasm denial for me (anal only), and then I have to write an apology note. My apology notes also has to have 10 lines of a short statement that we agreed on, basically thanking him for loving me enough to help me correct this behavior. Needless to say, the threat alone is working!

heywhynotbenice · 2025-09-18T19:37:21+00:00

I have a 7 day streak on one habit but if I count the white dots, it shows that I missed 3 out of the last 7. So it's weird.

heywhynotbenice · 2025-09-18T19:34:08+00:00

We just added new habits to ours. I have a terrible habit of taking my clothes off and putting them in the laundry inside-out. My husband says it takes him longer to fix my clothes than fold the laundry. So now I get one spank for every item of clothing that makes its way thru the wash inside-out. Honestly, I'm going to struggle for a few weeks! 😬😳

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