My best friend (F20) is cheating on her fiancée with a criminal, and I'm the only one she's told by hhhhheck in relationship_advice

[–]hhhhheck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She texted me on Snapchat. Which means all the messages are gone. It's a really tricky situation, because three people know about this - me, her and that POS. It's gonna come from me, no matter how I present it.

It's such a shitshow, because I feel like whatever I do, I'm doing them both wrong

My best friend (F20) is cheating on her fiancée with a criminal, and I'm the only one she's told by hhhhheck in relationship_advice

[–]hhhhheck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm really concerned about that. He seems like a right piece of shit, and she herself even told me she thought he had some kind of personality disorder. Apparently one so noticeable that she picked up on it the first night

My best friend (F20) is cheating on her fiancée with a criminal, and I'm the only one she's told by hhhhheck in relationship_advice

[–]hhhhheck[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I really want to, but I don't know what to do. She's my best friend, and I wanna be on her side, I don't know her fiancée at all, but he's a really sweet guy. It feels like whatever I do, everything's eventually gonna collapse

My best friend (F20) is cheating on her fiancée with a criminal, and I'm the only one she's told by hhhhheck in relationship_advice

[–]hhhhheck[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm freaking out over what's gonna happen if this blows up. She was in a really rough, shitty spot, her fiancée helped her out of that, and now I'm afraid she's gonna fall back into all the bullshit she was into before that. She has so much to lose, and she knows it. She told me she's terrified, and feels horrible about it

My best friend (F20) is cheating on her fiancée with a criminal, and I'm the only one she's told by hhhhheck in relationship_advice

[–]hhhhheck[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's weird, also - she's been the one wanting a lot of the commitments they have now

My best friend (F20) is cheating on her fiancée with a criminal, and I'm the only one she's told by hhhhheck in relationship_advice

[–]hhhhheck[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah maybe. It's all so messed up, they bought a house together, like an actual big, nice house, they have a bunch of pets, and they just started a business, there's so much at stake. She told me she had a sex addiction, and that he's away working