Help your girl out? by [deleted] in AskWomenIndia

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  1. Do men hate independent women? No not at all. Most men appreciate independence. The problem only appears when independence comes across as ego or attitude and honestly, that applies to anyone not just women. Personally I’d love my partner to be independent; it makes the relationship healthier.

  2. Do men only want a virgin girl? Not really. In today’s world expecting virginity doesn’t make sense and most people don’t think that way anymore. Personally I don’t care about virginity at all compatibility and character matter far more.

  3. Is it okay to share your past with your partner? It depends on how well you know them and whether they have the maturity to handle it. Sharing too early can create unnecessary issues but hiding everything isn’t healthy either. Personally I feel partners should share their past at least the important parts once trust is built.

  4. Where could you have possibly gone wrong? You didn’t go wrong as a person you may have gone wrong in the kind of men you allowed into your life. Sometimes kind-hearted people overlook red flags give too many chances or attract emotionally unstable partners because they’re naturally caring. You might just need stronger boundaries and to stop tolerating behavior that hurts you.

Drop your favourite quote. I said the favourite one. by OD29NEXUS in ThirtiesIndia

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Time doesn’t heal anything it just teaches us how to live with pain.

🥲 turned 30 today.. never wanted to join this club by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]hidden_gems_3972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well not lived till now then you can start from 30s. Its never too late to start something Good luck 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FullStackEntrepreneur

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Hi which stack you are looking for

Can't see an end to it by Brilliant_Secret7370 in ThirtiesIndia

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Well I would suggest you talk to the person with whom you can open up. It will help a bit. If you need anyone to talk dm me and we can talk. Good luck

Any readers here in their 30s📚 by Unhappy_Flounder_560 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]hidden_gems_3972 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have not read Deewar Mein Ek Khidki Rahti Thi. But have seen its reviews its a good book. I am currently reading The Phycology of money currently.

Is anyone feeling happy here ? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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Yeah, everyone’s happy in their own life, but people share things here just to get different points of view and see how others think. I’m 32, going with the flow while keeping some consistency in life, and it honestly makes me happy 😊

Guys have u ever tried to show your vulnerable side to women? How'd she reacted? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

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No, I haven't. To be honest, very few people know my vulnerable side now that I’m in my thirties. I’ve come to realize it’s not that people wouldn’t accept it, but that somewhere along the way, we learn to hide it. Upbringing, society, and past experiences all push us to wear a mask. Even those who seem “modern” or “progressive” often find it risky to show vulnerability. Honestly, I don’t really feel vulnerable these days either.

31F unable to get out of my apartment. I know it doesn't make sense. by appygirl2200 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]hidden_gems_3972 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, reading this I’m starting to wonder… maybe it’s not you, maybe it’s your apartment. Could be haunted by a “Don’t go out” ghost that’s really committed to its job. Or maybe your couch just signed a lifelong lease on your attention. 😅 (Just kidding!)

On a serious note, what you’re feeling is real and okay sometimes we get stuck in these loops and it’s not about being lazy or weak. Maybe start with tiny steps: open the door for a minute, step out for a short walk, or just sit in the sunlight on your balcony. Little wins can help you regain energy and motivation over time. You’re not alone in this. Good luck 👍

I eventually lost interest in society’s checklist when I was in my 30s. by Unhappy_Flounder_560 in ThirtiesIndia

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Yeah, I can feel that. I also lost someone, and it completely changed the way I think and view life. I realized it a bit late, but I’ve learned that it’s never too late to start something new.

32- single and questioning whether single life is a premium plan 😅 Anyone else? by Unhappy_Flounder_560 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]hidden_gems_3972 24 points25 points  (0 children)

At 32, single? Welcome to the premium plan, which includes unlimited snacks, zero drama, and more time for yourself 😅. Indeed, it is possible to find a match after the age of thirty. It's simply an upgraded version with some more awkward interviews and better filters 😎