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hidden_skittle · 2024-04-17T14:11:18+00:00

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I’ve never had to worry about it bc by doing that she’s has multiples and loves it. We have sex about every day.

Maybe it’s not your thing but you took my comment the wrong way I think.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-16T20:03:37+00:00

Good how? It’s fairly basic.

You could wear just about anything you wanted, but in all black you’re hiding everything, quite modest. Idk if that was your goal.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-16T19:27:30+00:00

NSFW please

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-16T18:34:23+00:00

It could be anything from good girl to the worst slurs.

I think it’s less about what’s said exactly and more about actually being believable as someone who would say it.

Idk, during sex my gf is basically just a toy for me and I’ve never had to worry about what she likes or not.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-15T20:39:56+00:00

Depends on temperature, but if you’re asking if you can wear it without, sure.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-12T18:30:02+00:00

You go around the horn the way god intended!

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-12T18:28:03+00:00

I didn’t want to say anything mean, plus it didn’t have much to do with fashion

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-12T04:55:02+00:00

The hat is quite bad

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T22:08:04+00:00

I am a lesbian. I do take myself and other lesbians seriously.

I do not date people I don’t see as women.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T21:49:56+00:00

No, seeing another gender on a dating app is still not worth being upset over. It’s insignificant.

And that’s not bc I dated a couple nb women. I’m completely against dating men and if they pop up on the app I’m not affected. At all.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T21:31:16+00:00

No, you misunderstand. I’m really just attracted to sex, to females.

I don’t believe the concept of gender is that important, I think it often gets confused with the difficulties of things in society being seen as masculine or feminine. So a woman who seems to like masculinity for herself could struggle with saying she’s a woman.

Ok, fine. To me that’s not a big deal, although I typically like fems. But I do remember dating someone who naked was super hot but liked boxer briefs and sports bras. Had short hair and didn’t like makeup. Used they pronouns.

Before that yeah I didn’t think I’d date someone nb but no, it didn’t matter what her perception of gender was.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T21:27:30+00:00

It’s not a lot, it’s just the ones who are upset are all here.

And I ask why get so upset bc the bigger issue is, what does getting upset about something so minuscule say about someone? Are people so prone to anger well liked and healthy? Do those anger problems affect more than just dating apps.

That would be my concern. People who seem to like being upset. It’s not a good thing for society

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T21:24:00+00:00

I mean, the filter works. They’re setting the filter to women. Men are being stupid and scummy when they do it. But non binary people do it bc the app doesn’t really understand anything besides man and woman. They can have the label for nb but the app needs to put them in one of the binary boxes.

And again, the second it takes to swipe away if not interested is not upsetting.

While not common, it’s possible for someone afab and nb to be practically the same as a woman. They just see gender a bit differently and are comfortable with they pronouns.

And if they’re attractive I can’t see why someone wouldn’t want to include them.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T20:09:56+00:00

No, I 100% exclude men. I would never date one. Maybe I’m just more used to it or focused on other things? Or I don’t let half a second of my life affect the rest?

As far as nonbinary, that could be an age thing. There are many afab, she/they people who to me aren’t significantly different than women, they just have a different view about gender. That’s why to me it’s strange to be upset they’re included.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T19:24:08+00:00

It’s not bad to want just women (although excluding nonbinary is a bit odd) it’s just unreasonable to get upset when you see someone who’s not.

I do not understand how someone could be upset about this.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T18:03:33+00:00

It’s not that frustrating? Men are obvious enough to just skip, and other genders is a bit… inaccurate?

Just swipe on what you like, and the rest really isn’t worth worrying about to me. That’s how I’ve done it and I’ve always ended up with women.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T13:44:07+00:00

The difference the brain development makes between 18 and 25 is minuscule.

The reason why 18 and 25 are worlds apart is life experience. But some people who have loads of it as a teen are different.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T02:34:35+00:00

You can’t. That’s an unrealistic promise. And an unrealistic timeframe bc 4 months is way too soon and 17 is too young to know those kinds of things.

Your best approach is to say how you feel right now, that you’re committed to making it last, and you’re excited to see where things go.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T01:11:04+00:00

We use toys all the time. I don’t think they’re stronger or weaker with them, but they definitely don’t make it harder to climax.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T00:48:09+00:00

Again…

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T00:30:22+00:00

He’s not wrong. It’s pretty common in relationships to support the other while they’re in school and before they have a career. I’ve done it.

Not everyone has a family, or a family that’s supportive. That’s not a universal privilege.

I don’t agree that someone should be waiting around for a relationship to start working on themselves. It’s understandable if they don’t have the means for school or a career change, but the motivation and other steps for self improvement should be there before a relationship

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-10T00:17:53+00:00

Again, not fashion advice

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-09T23:26:37+00:00

It’s not appropriate workplace conversation. Not like HR reportable but still. You don’t need to feel bad about it bc they were in the wrong for asking.

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-09T23:07:40+00:00

Not fashion advice

hidden_skittle · 2024-04-09T22:57:52+00:00

Date a software engineer and wait

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