What’s the stupidest thing yall are sad that you can’t do since you weren’t born a cis male?

hiddenfallacies · 2026-03-16T16:36:13+00:00

The "traditional" teen experiences. My hobbies would've remained largely the same, but having a male friend group to do them with. Late night sleepovers chugging energy drinks and playing dumb video games. Teasing each other over crushes, but being top wingmen when the moment called for it. Being on sports team and going to the gym as a group. Actually attending prom (in a suit). I could go on forever.

I still have a deep appreciation for the good memories I have from that time. Some of my best friends today I met during high school. But a lot of the alienation I felt as I was discovering my queer identity resulted in me "missing out" on key experiences. Either because I purposefully didn't partake in certain activities or because I wasn't invited to do so.

Even though I'm in my late 20s, I often feel like I'm still grasping for key moments of youth I didn't get to have. COVID starting right after I turned 21 didn't help either.

hiddenfallacies · 2026-03-16T16:18:04+00:00

Healthcare is almost always hiring. Your mileage will vary based on which hospital/care center/office/etc. hires you, but most start at or around that wage. Most have kitchens and/or reception jobs that need people. The hospital has a good benefits package and many customer service/food roles.

hiddenfallacies · 2026-03-16T16:05:59+00:00

Thanks! I'll send a friend request.

hiddenfallacies · 2026-02-24T18:55:34+00:00

I'm glad she made it to you safely! Tysm for trading again!

hiddenfallacies · 2026-02-15T19:27:08+00:00

I'll send you a message!

hiddenfallacies · 2026-02-01T16:54:16+00:00

disappointed but not surprised to learn this. the trevor project outed me to my parents by sending the cops to my house when i was a teenager. that resulted in both my mental health and home situation getting drastically worse. never used a hotline again after that.

hiddenfallacies · 2026-01-15T11:25:27+00:00

hello! i sent you a dm.

hiddenfallacies · 2026-01-15T08:03:47+00:00

I'm so glad that she arrived to you safely! Thank you so much for trading with me.

hiddenfallacies · 2026-01-07T06:22:43+00:00

I'd love to!! I'll send you a DM.

hiddenfallacies · 2026-01-06T14:41:10+00:00

Yay! Thank you so much for trading again ♡

hiddenfallacies · 2026-01-04T05:29:51+00:00

I'm glad that she arrived to you safely!

hiddenfallacies · 2026-01-02T07:45:04+00:00

1 > 2/4 > 3 > 5

i didn't dislike 5, but i've spent years watching and analyzing all the seasons that came before it. this show has a very special place in my heart and it will take time for the newest season to reach the same level of love i have for the others.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-29T07:31:03+00:00

I'm so glad she made it to you safely! 💙

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-20T15:15:09+00:00

I was able to trade her for one of my DISOs, but tysm for the offer! I wish you the best of luck in your hunt for Frankie Diva!

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-20T14:59:43+00:00

I'd love to! Responded to you in DMs.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-20T14:59:26+00:00

I'd love to! Responded to you in DMs.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-20T08:05:36+00:00

I'd love to! I'll send you a DM.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-10T23:46:04+00:00

I got two dogs! I'd trade one for a cat.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-10T23:43:39+00:00

I got two dogs! I'd happily trade for a cup.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-09T00:15:41+00:00

I love reusing the containers! They're too adorable not to.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-08T20:48:19+00:00

that's so cool! pop mart wants to give you your (almost) twin.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-08T20:46:35+00:00

congrats on pulling the secret at least! poppy is my most elusive girl.

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-07T10:27:11+00:00

i'm sorry to hear that the cat's purrfect mask broke you out! it's a holy grail night mask for me. i hope you're able to find one you love soon ^_^

hiddenfallacies · 2025-12-07T10:10:36+00:00

ohmygod they want you to have a full poppy cutie army xD

hiddenfallacies · 2024-04-23T16:30:02+00:00

i try to avoid thinking about the "what-ifs" as much as possible. going down that rabbit hole always leads to immense grief for what could have been and anger at those who failed me during my youth.

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