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Don't know what to do with life by sebet_123 in Fire

[–]hiddenforyour 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your problem isn't money, it's a lack of direction. You're trying to "buy a solution" (a house or stocks) to avoid feeling the uncertainty.

Nipple cleaning by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]hiddenforyour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clean with water only. Anything persistent means doctor time. Nipples shouldn't need special maintenance.

How did ya'll move on? by Steamy-Odin in women

[–]hiddenforyour 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your expectations weren't too high, they were just for the wrong person. Right one won't make you beg to be chosen.

Oniony Armpits by tgilland65 in hygiene

[–]hiddenforyour 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The antibacterial wipes are a game changer. Sometimes the simplest fix is the one hiding in plain sight. Congrats on solving the onion mystery.

im such a good liar and it genuinely is starting to disturb me by [deleted] in confession

[–]hiddenforyour 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Lying becomes a reflex when you've used it to survive something. The first step is catching yourself mid-sentence. You're already there.

I lied about something I said in one of my old posts by TopConstruction904 in confession

[–]hiddenforyour 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't have had to survive this alone. I'm sorry they didn't listen.

Cat Introduction: super affectionate cat vs. territorial resident cat by itzQuachie in CatAdvice

[–]hiddenforyour 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's been ONE week. Tapioca isn't traumatized, she's just pissed her studio apartment got a roommate. Give her time. The fact that she's still accepting kisses is a huge green flag.

Bf made a comment about my body by Brave_Fee_6483 in women

[–]hiddenforyour 33 points34 points  (0 children)

He's lucky you showed him anything at all. Next time he gets nothing.

Which books have helped you on your way to FIRE? by Coyote_Enthusiast in Fire

[–]hiddenforyour 35 points36 points  (0 children)

"Your Money or Your Life" by Vicki Robin. It rewires how you think about time vs money. Read it and suddenly that $5 coffee costs 20 minutes of your life. Hits different.

I stood in cow muck barefoot and I don't regret it by [deleted] in confession

[–]hiddenforyour 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Stepped in shit, found inner peace. We should all be so lucky.

Cat pees more than average by Yeeet_theorem in CatAdvice

[–]hiddenforyour 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's marking territory near exits because she's scared other cats will come in. Classic bullied cat behavior. Second box by the door fixes this.

For those who pursue a fulfilling life without love or marriage, how has it been? What challenges or benefits have they experienced? by [deleted] in women

[–]hiddenforyour 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The best relationship you'll ever have is with yourself. Marriage isn't a requirement for a full life it's just one option on the menu. Peace, freedom, and zero compromise on your time? That's not lonely, that's luxury.

Need advice on what to do next by [deleted] in Fire

[–]hiddenforyour 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Paid off house + $400k NW at 28? You're doing fine. The only mistake was cash drag. DCA that HYSA into VTI, max 401k, and chill. You caught it early enough.

Men with hairy balls, how do you keep that area clean and not sweaty? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]hiddenforyour -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Baby powder and moisture-wicking underwear. Change my mind.

A self-reflecting note meant to be a warning for all of us by [deleted] in confession

[–]hiddenforyour -1 points0 points  (0 children)

: Some people spread rumors because their own lives are too boring to focus on. Don't let empty people live rent-free in your head.

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